Lokeish Umak

Lukesh Umak

6 Strong Reasons to Stop You Married to Wrong Person

Marriage is one of the most heavenly things in life. These reasons will help you stop from getting married to wrong person. RUNNING AWAY FROM THE SOLUTION NEVER BEEN A ...

Marriage is one of the most heavenly things in life. These reasons will help you stop from getting married to wrong person.

RUNNING AWAY FROM THE SOLUTION NEVER BEEN A GOOD DECISION

It's always worse to the situation. You must have seen many people try to avoid solving the problems. However, later it becomes more difficult to face it again. Running away and getting married was India's famous act, and many of us have done that. Further, ultimately, it had been difficult to survive. The mostly breaking of relation with many, including relatives. Therefore, our relatives will talk only bad about it and their support cuts immediately. As well as you will have fewer relatives to come to your home.

TO SURVIVE IN ANY RELATION, YOU MUST HAVE MANY RELATIVES

In life, everyone is important, let it be your neighbours, colleagues, or your enemy. It is nature's law. When you run leaving your parent alone, their bad wishes will never let you live the life peaceful. Therefore, if you are happy in your world, but then the thought of your parent will wake you up in the middle of the night. That negative energy will never leave you for the lifetime.

THE MIND WILL DIVERT TO A NEGATIVE THOUGHT FOR OTHERS TOO

If you decided to run away for getting married, you and your mind will carry many negative thoughts with you for the lifetime. Those negative powers will start beating to an emerging positive thoughts and life will keep continuing this way. It will gradually become dangerous in the future. This also affects on upcoming kid's behaviours in the process of married to wrong person.

ALL PEOPLE KNOW, AFTER THE MARRIAGE, THE LIFE CHANGES AND EVERYONE HAS TO FACE THE SAME INSTANCES IRRESPECTIVE OF ARRANGE OR LOVE MARRIAGE

No one ever runs away from the problems and from the truth, even if he or she was born with a silver spoon. After the marriage, everyone passes through the same ups and downs. There is no difference between rich and poor in terms of passing through life's events. So choosing a wise decision before you run out of the time while making the one is a great thing. Therefore, once the decision fails its promise, then all ruins in life. You get frustrate and leads to suicide. Take a little longer over any decision and implementation.

DECEIVE PARENT IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE

If your parent isn't aware that you are getting married without their permission, and you think it does not matter? It is totally incorrect. When you were born, from that day they took care of you. Furthermore, they have seen many dreams for you than you did in the past. Thus, they have certainly sacrificed many things you are not aware about it. There is a chance they may save you getting married to the wrong person. They might have planned your wedding the way you like (grabbed from your past conversation) and for that, your parents were earning from the first day you came to exist. So, I think you should never let them down. Better switching to a long conversation with them and get the conclusion is a wise idea.

SITTING TOGETHER AND DISCUSS ALWAYS BRINGS THE SOLUTION

To any problem, there is a solution in this world. If you think that you can't live without him, then I suggest you should have a meeting with your parent over dinner with good mood and discuss the solution. You can ask their idea and put down your benefits over this. Surely, these will be a great help. And always remember, everything solves on this earth, but only you need to make the first move toward a positive thought in the thousands of negative ones.

Lokeish Umak

Lukesh Umak

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