The Great Indian Myth of Infection – Or The Lack Thereof

father and son in varanasi street market

It is not uncommon to hear these words being uttered frequently within the walls of an Indian household to children who at times fray their ripening limbs with injury — It’s just a wound, it’ll be okay. Ignore it, and it will be fine.

From soils bearing stones to skies raining hailstones, injuries imprint themselves upon our golden-hued skin and we let them — learning simply to tolerate. To make peace with it. I’ve always observed that within the Western framework of parenting, the child is nurtured and protected, while in the Asian, the child is nurtured and exposed — with the belief that emotional immunity will take over where necessary.

While it is Indian blood I identify with, my intimate interaction with Western literature and art, combined with a tendency to question existing conventional practices, forces me to look at the exceptions of this parenting technique — when the immunity cannot quite take over. The child does not learn to fight but instead succumbs to their suffering.

Be it wounds on knees or on elbows, the discomfort of sitting still or of unwanted touch, the incomprehensible scrawls on a child’s syllabus for school or the tears that drop into her lap after a scolding — one statement is made after every incident in nearly every Indian household, and that is — to get up, to stop crying, and to deal with it.

Repeat it just enough and I assure you, the child does stop crying. Lips bitten shut to hold in sobs, the eyes a concoction of fear and effort, overflowing down cheeks flushed with emotion. However, the wound when seen hurts them even more, for it’s a reminder of suffering. And then we Indians say the golden words again — It’s just a wound. It only hurts because you’re paying attention to it. Don’t look at it, and eventually, it will go away.

Having witnessed this scene repeatedly, I led myself to believe that perhaps this is why Indian households truly lack conflict resolution. Problems are addressed only in arguments, as points of debate — locked away in a cupboard with other regrets and resentments folded and tucked away neatly in an unattended corner of the heart. For we tell ourselves — It only hurts because we’re thinking about it. Think about all the good things, and the pain will go away. Wives, children, fathers, husbands, friends, teachers, relatives, and strangers — we’re never heard. We’re seen, and we’re told that we won’t be heard and seen if we don’t feel as we should.

I felt the same way for a long time. I’d cry and tell myself to stop crying, for I only cried when I thought about it. If I didn’t look at the knife that had been stabbed into me, perhaps I’d forget it had ever happened, and I could live my happily ever after.

But weeks turned to months, and months turned to years.

The stab wound I may have forgotten, but now possessed me — not my tears — but a dull ache throughout my body. My blood spilling into conversations it didn’t belong in, and a fragile rip held together only with a few darts of string — I was torn across my entire self, keeping me from being as I was, doing what I did, and saying what I thought.

Infection.
This daughter of two doctors had thought, Her wound, yes, it needs time. Every wound needs time. No doctor or medicine can heal a wound the way time does. But never did she think — Time cannot heal what medicine must. An infection.

My belonging is of a country that has, through history, myths, and the present, preached of its soil’s miraculous properties and its vast medical resources. We believe in healing, not 'treatment' — fixing the root of the physical ailment through Ayurveda. Yet, with emotional injury, we wash away all of those practical, beloved, scientific solutions into a simple ditty repeated through the ages — Ignore the wound, it will heal by itself.

Why do our eyes not notice this fact, darker than the kajal that lines them — it is not the mental wound that requires treatment, but the corroded blood that infiltrates into the bloodstream, leaving the person contaminated and blaming themselves as the contaminant. It is not the incident that wounds the soul, but its impact. The heart bleeds not from a stab, but from the lack of bandages placed to staunch its bleeding. 

So infected, we continue. We move on, we go on. We continue to hurt for decades over the injury of a minute. Although it would have taken a minute mere indeed to place a warm touch over the scab and say, “I know it’s here. And so am I.”

We rot within ourselves and blame the stench on our weakness — a weakness that was never there in the first place. For we seem to showcase our strength through negligence to wounds, when the truth is, it weakens our immunity to hardship.

I considered also the perspective that perhaps it is not simply the notion of culture and tradition that keeps us from seeking treatment, but the fear of the pain — for we are told that society’s prying eyes will hurt far more than acquiring balm. But not once did a soul think of a, say, tourniquet. A band of pain that one may have to bear for a while, but it saves one’s life. And comes then a day when one can extricate themselves from its grip — setting the soul free — perhaps even wear the scars as remnants and reminders of a past that not many understood.

India is a country with myriad languages, and in each of those, synonyms for a single word lie plenty. But we cast not an eye on them. We Indians equate infection to injury — treating neither — saying we’d rather die.
And we do.

Igniting Young Minds to Inspire Future

Ignite young minds, inspire innovation, and lead with higher thinking—discover how visionary habits and disruptive ideas shape tomorrow’s industrial and scientific future : boy wearing green crew neck shirt jumping from black stone on seashore

Sharp minds lead the way to success, and today’s young learners are tomorrow’s leaders
Trends today indicate professional tunnel vision to illuminate millions of young readers
It is high time we all adopt a healthy lifestyle and a superior quality of life inducement
Higher-order thinking skills require a lifelong commitment to continuous improvement

Shining examples of disruptive innovators does make sense when you start living at work
Create a bright chapter and a symbol of innovation through dynamic research groundwork
Maintain quality work culture, knowledge sharing, and infrastructure to move fast forward
Sophisticated tools to explore Nature beyond barriers of scientific fields straightforward

Set up digital public infrastructure to beat corruption and maintain future transparency byte
Develop the habit of reading high-class literature that paves the way for guiding glossy light
Sow the small seed of igniting young minds to inspire rewarding future gigantic tree canopy
Establish a manufacturing base for world-class products with deep tech start-ups overcanopy

Promote industrialization to become the world’s biggest producer/exporter, not the importer
Industrial power by large-scale factories can spike the pulse rate of the live financial quarter
Develop indigenous disruptive technologies to build your industrial base to avoid royalties
It is worth expansion and an extension of transdisciplinary/interdisciplinary research loyalties

Don’t be just a follower of emerging technologies and their applications, create followers
Don’t just jump from one bandwagon to another scientific research, establish swallowers
Don’t just go for incremental innovation but be at the top of the innovation pyramid soon
Don’t just publish routine papers, but publish countless scientific breakthrough ones boon

Follow the solid principles and ideals that give strength and momentum to solid progress
Just balance different aspects of life like work, family, friends, health, spirit and neat dress
Draw inspiration from stalwarts in each field and follow the path/message they laid down
Lighting lamps to practice ideals ignites young minds to inspire bright sparkling crown

A Global Environmental Wake-up Call

person sitting on mountain cliff: The poem opens with the personification of nature, framing climate change as a message—an alarm that humanity must heed. This sets the tone: the Earth is in crisis, and it is calling out for rescue.
We have been given a warning on climate change, a wake-up call by nature 
Responding by planting billion saplings on the planet to nurture in the future
The drastic change in the science of our planet has given us a warning of distress
It is up to us to heed the wake-up call to avoid the dangers of human-made stress

Ozone layer depletion and greenhouse effects can lead to a global human rights crisis
Many modern factories can cause extreme environmental problems like a small virus
Reducing the impacts of greenhouse gas emissions is crucial to combat global heating
Contemporary environmental issues require urgent global actions on a war footing

Stop and monitor overexploitation and start restoration of the Earth’s natural resources
Stop polluting the environment and plant a tree to save air, water, and soil discourses
Small actions by global citizens like supporting all life forms can make a big difference
Save the environment for our future generations to have such a beautiful sight reference

Modification of our consumption patterns is essential to maintain planetary health
A new way of sharing this planet Earth and a novel development model for wealth
It’s time to move beyond greedy actions and embrace green progressive development
Knowing the ecological systems switches our relationship with nature’s envelopment

Conserve and protect biodiversity in this interdependent and interconnected space
Reconnection with the natural world is essential for good environmental health case
Cultivate artificial forests on barren lands to experience below-normal heat choice
Let us unite to explore scientifically the environmental landscape to beam the voice

Global warming at an unprecedented rate drastically impacts the natural cycles of nature
United efforts required to make a positive impact on the climate crisis worldwide stature
Energy efficiency and sustainable development are imperative for the planet’s revival
Extinctions of several diverse species mandates framing eco-friendly policies for survival

Encouraging clean energy is the key to green practices for a future sustainable planet
Execute global climate initiatives by special action force to reduce the overall impact
Explore cutting-edge solutions and best practices for reducing global warming effects
Eliminate human-driven factors in influencing changing climate patterns connects

Instill a sense of environmental responsibility to march on the path of green progress
Prevent and manage wildfires and focus on sustainable development goals and process
Create public awareness of environment and climate resources to reduce eco-anxiety
Understand the urgency of the climate crisis to frame tougher climate laws for society

Erupting military conflicts leaves a trail of environmental destruction and waste mountains
Ecological harm with deadly destructive impacts needs mass movement of people fountains
We need deeper knowledge of enormous, yet intricate internal natural processes of the world
Reset international collaborations and cooperation with long-term transformations concerned

Pay attention to change environmental landscape to avoid tragic negative consequences
Health and safety of flora and fauna are more important than the standard of residence
Severe floods and draughts incident is a wake-up call for a multi-sectorial approach state
Waking up to severe climate change by taking urgent collective actions before it is too late



Fanatic Mindset Course Correction

man in black shirt and pants standing on the floor: a thoughtful, poetic, and somewhat philosophical reflection on the need for systemic change in society, governance, and global relations.
Much-needed course correction in finding a road among potholes and order in disorder 
Drastic reforms are needed toward peace and harmony via negotiations and a new order
Restoring strength and hope with cutting-edge technologies for sustainable development
A wide range of solutions with a people-centric equitable approach transforms settlement

Understanding community needs and commitment to redefining social welfare protocols
Small consistent practical mindset changes can make a big difference in performance calls
Strict agreement and best practices must extend beyond things connecting to core principles
Radical mindset to moderate ideology takes their engagement in value-based activity cycles

Creating a false perception among the public via false narratives can set a wrong precedent
Advocating violence in all its forms must be taken to task in public and legal action dent
Crack down on organized criminal activities in all their colors/flavors is an essential action
Epicenters of extremism and terrorist mindset must be firmly dismantled before distraction

Extremist agenda by radical elements raises several alarming questions about global integrity
Efforts of destabilizing forces must be declared illegal and nipped in the bud for overall unity
Extended global family concept eventually leads to rejuvenation, renewed focus, and energy
Freedom from terrorist mindset would have a long-term impact on universal peace entropy

Offer hope and light to keep the fires of confidence, conviction, and faith burning forever
Regulate harmful content and hate speech events that have real-world consequences ever
Social media disregarding peoples’ sensibilities and cultural invasion demand firm actions
Reversing the war trend will require deep reforms within the public mindset and interactions

Nurturing public mental state plays a pivotal role in multiphase development in life manual
Make positive changes on various parameters to enhance human wellness quotient annual
Build a society on strong pillars of accountability, transparency, ethics, integrity, and ecology
Fanatic mindset course correction needs a blend of knowledge, experience, and technology

How to Handle Rejection Without Losing Yourself

woman in red long sleeve shirt: Feeling the sting of rejection? This candid article explores why "no" isn't final, how to process the pain, and how rejection can actually reshape you into a stronger, truer version of yourself.

Let's talk about something no one likes to talk about—rejection.

You know that sinking feeling in your stomach when someone says "no," when you're left out, passed over, or just not chosen? Yeah, that one.

We've all been there.

Whether it's not getting the job you poured your heart into, a friend pulling away, a relationship that ended before you were ready, or even something as simple (but painful) as being left out of a conversation, you feel it. It stings. And sometimes, it shakes you.

This isn't just about rejection. It's about what rejection can do to us if we're not careful.

Because let's be honest—when the world says "no," it's easy to start wondering:

  • What's wrong with me?
  • Was I not good enough?
  • Should I even keep trying?

But here's the truth I want to walk you through: rejection doesn't define you. It reveals you.

And more importantly, it can reshape you without you losing your core.

When Rejection Feels Personal

Let's not pretend we can just "shake it off" all the time. Rejection can feel deeply personal, even when it's not meant to be.

That email that starts with, "Unfortunately..."

That friend who stops reaching out.

That silence after you open up and share something vulnerable.

It doesn't just touch your confidence—it presses hard against your identity.

But before you internalize that pain and let it become part of your story, pause.

Ask yourself, "What story am I telling myself right now?"

Because most of the time, rejection says more about timing, fit, or someone else's headspace than it does about you.

Stop Letting "No" Mean "Never"

One of the sneakiest traps of rejection is finality.

You hear "no," and it echoes like "never."

But here's the thing: most rejections are just detours. Not dead ends.

That job you didn't get? Maybe it was clearing space for something better aligned.

That relationship ended? Maybe it taught you how to love yourself more fiercely.

That opportunity that slipped away? Maybe it wasn't your opportunity to begin with.

I get it—it's hard to believe that when your chest is tight and your heart is bruised.

But think back. How many rejections eventually led you somewhere even better?

Permit Yourself to Feel It

Here's something we don't hear enough: You're allowed to grieve rejection.

You don't have to pretend it didn't hurt. You don't have to be the "strong one" all the time.

Cry. Journal. Go on a long, angry walk. Vent to someone who gets it.

Let yourself process it fully, because stuffing it down only lets it fester.

And when you've let the emotion pass through you, something incredible happens: You make room for your resilience to show up.

Rejection is Redirection

I know this phrase is all over social media these days, but hear me out: There's power in this truth.

When you're able to zoom out, you'll often see that rejection didn't remove something from your life—it redirected you toward something more aligned, more grounded, more you.

Sometimes the rejection was a gift wrapped in frustration.

Sometimes it saved you from months or years of compromise.

Rejection invites you to re-evaluate—not yourself, but the path you were on.

Hold Onto Yourself

The scariest part of rejection isn't the "no." It's what "no" tries to do to your identity.

Don't let it chip away at your worth.

Don't let it convince you to be smaller, quieter, or less you just to avoid the hurt again.

Your job isn't to avoid rejection.

Your job is to be so rooted in who you are that rejection doesn't shake your foundation.

You are still whole. Still enough. Still capable. Even when someone else doesn't see it.

So, How Do You Handle Rejection Without Losing Yourself?

Let's recap—because I know when your heart's heavy, clarity helps:

  • Feel it fully. Don't bottle it up. Let the emotion move through.
  • Challenge the story. Don't let a single "no" rewrite your worth.
  • Zoom out. Rejection often protects you from the wrong fit.
  • Reflect with kindness. Growth comes from reflection, not shame.
  • Keep showing up. Bravery is in the trying, not the outcome.

Final Thoughts

If you're in the thick of rejection right now, I want to say this gently but clearly, You are not broken. You are becoming.

Every "no" you face carves out space for a better "yes." Not because you weren't enough, but because you're growing into something stronger, truer, and more you.

Let the "no" be part of your story, but not the whole story.

Because the best chapters? They're still unwritten.

I'm learning this too. And if you are, I'm walking with you.

The Ultimate Guide to Diary Writing for Students

fashion woman notebook pen: Got questions about diary writing? Find answers to common FAQs for students or working professionals, covering what to write, and journaling benefits.

Feeling overwhelmed by school, social life, and the sheer volume of thoughts buzzing in your head? Or perhaps you're looking for a creative outlet, a secret space to explore your ideas and feelings? Look no further than the humble diary—a powerful tool that’s been cherished by thinkers, artists, and everyday individuals for centuries.

More than just scribbling down daily events, diary writing is a profound exercise in self-discovery, creativity, and personal growth. The scientific study says positive journaling gives profound impact on your life. It contributes to your mental health and overall well-being and boosts mood. And in today's digital age, it’s easier than ever to start!

Unleash Your Inner Storyteller: The Ultimate Guide on How to Write Diary

How often should I write in my diary? Do I have to write every day?

Absolutely not! While "diary" often implies daily, the best frequency is whatever works for you. Some days you might have a lot to say, other days just a few lines. The key is consistency over quantity.

What should I write about if nothing "exciting" happened?

You don't need dramatic events to fill your diary! The most profound entries often come from reflecting on the "ordinary."

Is it okay if my diary entries are messy, unorganised, or full of mistakes?

YES! In fact, that's the whole point! Your diary is your private space, not a graded assignment.

How do I keep my diary private and secure from others?

Online Journals (like MemoirDiary.com): This is where digital excels! Choose a reputable platform that offers:

Using an online platform often feels more secure than a physical book that can be misplaced or discovered.

Strong Password Protection: Use a unique, complex password.

Encryption: Ensures your data is scrambled and secure.

Privacy Settings: Check that your entries are set to private by default.

Can diary writing really help me with school or my future?

Absolutely! While it might feel personal, the skills you develop through diary writing are highly transferable and beneficial for both academics and life.

Memoir Diary is a place for writers to write on daily reflection.
Guide to Diary Writing

Let's dive into everything students need to know about diary writing, from the basics to why platforms like MemoirDiary.com are your new best friend.

What is diary writing anyway?

At its core, diary writing is the practice of regularly recording your thoughts, feelings, experiences, and observations in a private space. It’s a personal conversation with yourself, a candid record of your journey. Unlike a school essay, there are no right or wrong answers, no grades, and no judgement. It's just you, your thoughts, and the page.

Why Should Students Keep a Diary? The Amazing Benefits!

You might think diary writing is just for historical figures or angsty teenagers (think Adrian Mole!). But the benefits for students are immense and surprisingly practical:

  1. Boosts Self-Awareness: Understanding your own emotions, reactions, and thought patterns is crucial for mental well-being and maturity. A diary helps you track how you feel and why.
  2. Improves Writing Skills: Regular writing, even informal, strengthens your vocabulary, sentence structure, and descriptive abilities. This directly translates to better essays, reports, and communication.
  3. Reduces Stress and Anxiety: Pouring out your worries onto paper can be incredibly therapeutic. It helps you process difficult emotions, identify problems, and even find solutions.
  4. Enhances Memory: Ever forget what you did last week? Your diary becomes a personal archive, helping you remember important events, lessons learnt, and even funny moments.
  5. Fosters Creativity: A diary is a safe space for brainstorming ideas, developing characters, sketching stories, or even writing poems. It's your personal creative playground.
  6. Develops Problem-Solving Skills: By articulating challenges in your diary, you can gain clarity and often find new perspectives or solutions you hadn't considered.
  7. Tracks Progress: Whether it's academic goals, personal habits, or creative projects, a diary allows you to see how far you've come over time.

Diary Format: No Strict Rules, But Here’s a Common Structure

The beauty of a diary is its freedom! There's no single "correct" format, but here's a common structure that you many find helpful. You can use date, dear friends (if you are writing online), To my self, etc. You also have to remember to leave your post having good sign-off that left unfinished. May be interested task that you are going to finish next day or time that keep you inspire to write. Know the important aspect of diary what all that should be including,

  • Date and Time: Always start with the current date (and time, if you wish). This anchors your entry in time.
    • Example: May 24, 2025, 8:30 PM
  • Salutation (Optional): Many people like to address their diary, like a trusted friend.
    • Example: Dear Diary, My Journal, To My Confidant, Hey Me, Self...
  • Opening Statement: A quick summary of your mood or the main event of the day.
    • Example: "Today was a rollercoaster..." or "I'm feeling really reflective tonight."
  • The Body: This is where you write freely.
    • Events: What happened today? Who did you talk to? What did you do at school?
    • Thoughts: What are you thinking about? Ideas, questions, observations.
    • Feelings: How did those events or thoughts make you feel? Explore your emotions.
    • Reflections/Lessons: What did you learn? What would you do differently? What are you grateful for?
    • Future Hopes/Plans: What are you looking forward to? What do you want to achieve?
  • Closing (optional): A brief sign-off.
    • Example: Until tomorrow. That's all for now. Sleep well, your friend.

Diary Topics & Ideas for Students: Never Run Out of Things to Write!

Stuck on what to write? Here are endless ideas for your diary entries, including day-to-day good and bad parts of the day. Note: When you write about gratitude, do not talk about the negative side of the story.

Personal & reflective:

  • How was your day, really? What was the best/worst part?
  • What are you grateful for today?
  • What challenges are you facing at school or with friends? How do you feel about them?
  • Write about a dream you had.
  • Describe your emotions right now. Why do you feel that way?
  • What's something new you learnt today?
  • Reflect on a recent conversation or argument.
  • What are your goals for tomorrow, next week, or this year?
  • Write a letter to your future self.
  • What's a fear you have? How does it affect you?

Creative and Imaginative:

  • Describe your ideal day in vivid detail.
  • Create a character and write a short scene with them.
  • Write a poem about something you saw today.
  • Imagine you have a superpower. What is it, and how do you use it?
  • Describe a place you love using all five senses.
  • Write a fictional dialogue between two unexpected characters.
  • Brainstorm ideas for a story, a project, or even a new invention.

School & Academic:

  • What was the most interesting thing you learnt in class today?
  • Which subject is challenging you most, and why?
  • Reflect on a recent test or assignment. What went well? What could be improved?
  • Write down questions you have about a topic you're studying.
  • Plan out your study schedule for the week.
  • Describe your ideal learning environment.

Types of Diaries You Can Keep:

  • Daily Diary: The most common type, recording day-to-day events and feelings.
  • Gratitude Journal: Focuses solely on things you are grateful for.
  • Dream Journal: Records dreams immediately after waking up.
  • Travel Journal: Documents experiences, observations, and feelings during a trip.
  • Bullet Journal: A customisable system for planning, tracking, and journaling (often with a creative flair).
  • Reading Journal: Notes and reflections on books you've read.
  • Project Journal: Tracks progress, ideas, and challenges for a specific project.

Why Online Journaling (Like MemoirDiary.com) is a Game-Changer for Students and experience writers

While a physical notebook has its charm, online journaling platforms offer unique advantages, especially for students.

  1. Accessibility & Portability: Write anywhere, anytime—on your phone, tablet, or computer. No more forgetting your notebook! Your diary is always with you.
  2. Privacy & Security: Reputable online platforms offer password protection and encryption, keeping your thoughts safe from prying eyes (unlike a physical diary that can be easily found or lost).
  3. Searchability: Quickly find old entries by date, keyword, or tag. Imagine instantly finding that thought you had last year about your career goals!
  4. Multimedia Integration: Add photos, links, or even audio notes to your entries, making them richer and more dynamic.
  5. Organisation: Categorise entries by theme (e.g., "School," "Friends," "Feelings"), tag them, or organise by date, making it easy to browse your journey.
  6. No Limits: Never run out of pages! Online journals offer unlimited space for your thoughts.
  7. Less Intimidating: For some, a blank digital page feels less daunting than a pristine physical notebook. You can easily edit or delete without "ruining" a page.
  8. Eco-Friendly: Reduces paper consumption.
  9. You can create your own diary where all the thoughts and reflections are on one page. eg: memoirdiary.com/diary/author/michael-jackson/ where all the entries will be found.

At MemoirDiary.com, building a space where you can securely and creatively cultivate your personal narrative. Read others reflections, it's designed to be intuitive, and inspiring—the perfect digital companion for your journaling journey.

Start Your Diary Today!

Whether you choose a classic notebook or a modern online platform, the most important step is to simply begin. Dedicate a few minutes each day, or even a few times a week, to jot down your thoughts. You'll be amazed at how quickly your diary becomes an indispensable tool for self-discovery, creativity, and navigating the exciting adventure of being a student.

Your story is worth telling. Start writing it today!

Rebuilding Society: From Potholes to Peace with Mindset & Reform

Explore transformative solutions for peace, sustainable development, and social harmony through mindset change, technology, and people-centric reforms.

Much-needed course correction
in finding a road among potholes and order in disorder.
Drastic reforms are needed toward peace and harmony via negotiations and a new order.
Restoring strength and hope with cutting-edge technologies for sustainable development.
A wide range of solutions with a people-centric equitable approach transforms settlement.

Understanding community needs
and commitment to redefining social welfare protocols.
Small consistent practical mindset changes can make a big difference in performance calls.
Strict agreement and best practices must extend beyond things connecting to core principles.
Radical mindset to moderate ideology takes their engagement in value-based activity cycles.

Creating a false perception among the public
via false narratives can set a wrong precedent.
Advocating violence in all its forms must be taken to task in public and legal action dent.
Crack down on organized criminal activities in all their colors/flavors is an essential action.
Epicenters of extremism and terrorist mindset must be firmly dismantled before distraction.

Extremist agenda by radical elements
raises several alarming questions about global integrity.
Efforts of destabilizing forces must be declared illegal and nipped in the bud for overall unity.
Extended global family concept eventually leads to rejuvenation, renewed focus, and energy.
Freedom from terrorist mindset would have a long-term impact on universal peace entropy.

Offer hope and light
to keep the fires of confidence, conviction, and faith burning forever.
Regulate harmful content and hate speech events that have real-world consequences ever.
Social media disregarding peoples’ sensibilities and cultural invasion demand firm actions.
Reversing the war trend will require deep reforms within the public mindset and interactions.

Nurturing public mental state
plays a pivotal role in multiphase development in life manual.
Make positive changes on various parameters to enhance human wellness quotient annual.
Build a society on strong pillars of accountability, transparency, ethics, integrity, and ecology.
Fanatic mindset course correction needs a blend of knowledge, experience, and technology.

Pahalgam: A Cry Against Hatred and Violence

A powerful poetic plea to those fueling hate and war—reflecting on the tragedy in Pahalgam and the shattered lives left behind. When will humanity choose compassion? sad bald man
O you brave men or the most hateful individuals,
Whether you are engaged in a religious war,
Acting as the agents of some authority,
Or dancing to the tunes of your Master's Voice,
What have you accomplished?
For money?
Then ask the tailor to sew a pocket onto your last garment.
If you believe you have months to live before reaching heaven,
Realise that in pursuit of a paradise, that no one has seen,
You have turned 'Heaven on Earth' into hell.

Have you seen the image of the innocent face,
Still adorned with chura in her arms,
Henna on her hands, and the fragrance of fresh rose petals
Showered on her during her marriage just days ago?
Now the head of her husband rests in her lap.
They came to Pahalgam to create beautiful memories of their marriage,
But what has become of that hope?
May the Almighty spare your loved ones from such a fate.

Reflect on what you truly gain from such actions.
Do you consider how the noble souls who have perished in this violence
Will console their families?
O Kings of the Kingdom of Hatred,
Cease this horrific war; do not play with the lives of innocent people.
O Heaven on Earth, today the lovers of humanity are ashamed of the actions of misguided individuals.
Grant them a sense of compassion, if you can.

Demand Generation: The Real Recipe for Sustainable Lead Growth

97% of your audience isn't ready to buy today. Learn how to build real demand with smart strategies like content that educates, ICP targeting, and trust-building.

“We need to generate leads.” Sounds familiar? If only I got a penny every time clients & potential clients have said this to me. Here’s the catch: 97% of your audience isn’t ready to buy today.

So why keep microwaving content like instant noodles & expecting a five-course meal? Demand generation isn’t about forcing leads— it’s about planting seeds. Here’s how to grow them right:


1. Awareness First, Leads Later:

Forget instant conversions. Start by positioning your expertise, experience & unique value through content that educates, not sells. Think blogs, videos & webinars that answer burning questions.

  • Example: A SaaS company creates a YouTube series on “How to Reduce Customer Churn” instead of pushing a product demo.

2. Know Your Ideal Customer Profile (ICP) Inside Out:

Guessing your audience’s pain points? That’s like baking a cake without a recipe.

  • Do this: Use intent data to track online behaviors and tailor content to what your ICP actually needs.
  • Pro tip: Narrow your ICP as much as possible. A vague audience = generic messaging that falls flat.

3. Show Them What They Need (Before They Know It):

Your audience might not be searching for your solution yet. Create demand by highlighting problems they’re ignoring.

  • Tactic: Publish ungated “how-to” guides (e.g., “5 Signs Your Sales Process Is Leaking Revenue”) to build trust.
  • Case study: Brands like Seiko used targeted display ads to boost keyword searches by 110%— by focusing on customer needs, not products.

4. Relationships > Transactions:

People buy from brands they trust.

  • Host webinars or workshops to engage prospects face-to-face (even virtually).
  • Leverage LinkedIn ads or email sequences to nurture leads with personalized content, not sales pitches.

5. Measure, Iterate, Repeat:

Track everything— content engagement, ad performance, lead quality. Double down on what works.

  • Tool hack: Use retargeting ads to re-engage visitors who consumed your content but didn’t convert.

The Bottom Line

Demand generation isn’t a 2-minute noodle hack. You can’t just pour hot water on half-baked content and call it a meal. It’s a slowsimmer— educating, earning trust & staying on their radar until your ideal customer wakes up one day thinking, “Damn,Ineedwhatthey’reserving.” So stop fishing for instant leads. Start cooking real demand. Also, read my last article on Content Creation Challenges.

More Than Mumma: The Sacred, Silent Cost of Motherhood

Poem "More Than Mumma"

This piece is a heartfelt reflection on the unseen emotional and mental labor mothers carry in silence. It sheds light on how society often glorifies motherhood with ideals of strength, sacrifice, and selflessness, while failing to recognize the immense personal cost these expectations can bring. The writing challenges the romanticized notion of the “supermom,” emphasizing how this narrative contributes to the invisibility of a mother’s emotional struggles. Through vivid expressions and honest admissions, the writer gives voice to countless mothers who feel unheard, overwhelmed, and undervalued, despite giving their all to their families.

The final sections underscore the urgent need for acknowledgment, compassion, and open conversations about the realities of motherhood. The emphasis is not on seeking pity but on reclaiming the space to feel, to rest, and to be human. It encourages mothers to speak up, ask for help, and allow themselves to exist beyond their roles. The message is clear: in order to build a better, emotionally healthy future for our children, we must first start by nurturing the emotional well-being of mothers themselves. Recognizing their invisible load is the first step in honoring not just the idea of motherhood, but the women who live it every single day.

More Than Mumma

We talk about how beautiful motherhood is.
But what about the weight no one sees?

Let me say this upfront: this is not a pity piece.
It’s not about “poor moms” or “motherhood is suffering.”

I love being a mom—with all my heart.

Motherhood is powerful. It’s transformative. It’s sacred.

But somewhere along the way, culture wrapped that sacredness in silence—
in expectations, in myths we never questioned.

And because of that, motherhood can feel… invisible.

Over the years, we’ve turned mothers into superheroes.
And that sounds like a compliment—until you realise:
Superheroes are expected to do it all.
Without a pause.
Without asking for help.

The Invisible Load We Carry

You do everything:

Pack the lunchboxes.
Fold the little socks.
Remember every birthday, every doctor’s appointment, every school event.

You cheer the loudest.
You love the hardest.

And somehow… you’re still the last person to get a “How are you doing?”

That’s the disadvantage. The part no one warns you about.

We hear it all the time:

  • Mothers are selfless.
  • Mothers always put family first.
  • Mothers are meant to be strong.

And so, we do.
We give.
We bend.

Because strength has been romanticised.
Because sacrifice has been worshipped.

It’s the idea that you’re not allowed to feel overwhelmed by it all.
That if you do somehow, you’ve failed.

Motherhood slowly becomes an identity that swallows every other one you had.
You’re no longer the writer, the dreamer, the dancer, the girl with silly quirks.
You’re just—“mumma.”

A beautiful title, yes.
But also a heavy one.

The Silent Sacrifices

It’s in the way the world expects you to be okay. All. The. Time.

You’re expected to keep the ship sailing, even when you’re drowning below deck.
To smile through exhaustion.
To juggle everything with grace.

We’ve been conditioned to believe that motherhood means being the eternal caretaker, even at the cost of our well-being.
Somewhere along the line, self-care became a luxury instead of a necessity.

This isn’t about blaming anyone.
Our grandmothers did it. Our mothers did it.
And now, we’re expected to continue—without questioning the weight passed down from generation to generation.

The silent strength of holding it all together while coming undone.

There are days when the weight of motherhood feels heavier than I can carry.
There are nights when I lie awake, wondering if anyone truly understands the mental load I carry.

There are moments when I question whether I’ve lost parts of myself in the process—whether I’m still me, or just a collection of roles.

It’s a constant balancing act:
Trying to nurture your family while also trying to nurture yourself.
Trying to be everything to everyone, without completely losing yourself in the process.

And no matter how much we try, the guilt creeps in.
If we take time for ourselves, we feel selfish.
If we push through exhaustion, we feel like we’re failing at motherhood.

The unspoken disadvantage?
We’re not allowed to feel both exhausted and loved.
Both burned out and worthy.

The Quiet Strength We’ve Come To Expect

There’s a certain quiet strength in motherhood.

It’s the strength that says, “I’ve got this,” even when you’re on the brink of collapse.
It’s the strength that keeps you going, even when you feel like you’ve given all you have to give.

And yet—it’s the very thing that makes it hard to ask for help.
To show weakness.
To admit when you’re struggling.

Because we’ve been taught that if we don’t make it look easy, we’re failing.

I’m here to tell you:
You’re not failing.
No one has it all together all the time.
Not even superheroes.

And maybe it’s time we stop expecting ourselves, as mothers, to be superhuman.
Maybe it’s time we start acknowledging the weight we carry—
and stop pretending it doesn’t exist.

What’s Missing: Acknowledgment, Pauses, And Support

Don’t get me wrong.
I wouldn’t trade motherhood for anything.

But I do wish for:
More acknowledgment.
More pauses.
More hugs.

So here I am, saying it out loud.
Not for sympathy.
But for love.

The real weight of motherhood isn’t in everything we do—
It’s in everything we silently feel and don’t share,
Just because our emotions might be ‘too much’ for the world.

Motherhood is all-encompassing.
But that doesn’t mean it should take everything away.

It’s okay to say, I need a break.
It’s okay to feel tired, overwhelmed, and unsure.
And it’s okay to take a moment.

Because when we do, we create space for ourselves and our families.
Space to breathe. To be honest. To be heard.

And that honesty?
It makes our relationships stronger.
It helps us let go of silent grudges.
It helps us release the blame.
It helps us accept, with love.

If we want something better for our daughters, our sons, and ourselves,
We have to start talking.
Out loud and unfiltered.

Because motherhood deserves honour that’s worth protecting.
But mothers?
They deserve to be seen, too.

Even the strongest hearts need rest, and even the kindest souls deserve to be seen. Acknowledgment can be the beginning of healing.