Exploring the Timeless Virtue of Honor: A Reflection on Integrity and Truth

Discover the significance of honor in today's world. From personal integrity to the evolving role of honor in men and women, this piece reflects on truth,

When times had not yet advanced, a person's honor was accepted with a handshake, no one doubted it.
Nowadays, it seems as if careers, work, and wars did not exist.
If you allow me, today I would like to talk to you precisely about honor.
Thank you for reading.

Honor is a virtue that, once expressed and understood by those around you, will give you confidence and strengthen your word wherever you speak, because you will be a credible person in everything you say.

For the good man, honor has been associated with integrity and the protection of his family.
An honest man will always enjoy good friendships, because his word will always be taken into account and no one will ever distrust it. The honest man honors his commitments and always keeps his word.
I would say that life, lived with honesty, is like the Word of a good Father, which the child always believes without a little doubt that what his ears hear is true.

On the contrary, even in the century in which we live, despite the struggle for equality between men and women, the honor of women is not in their words but in their actions.
The honor of women is and continues to be being pure, faithful, hard-working, long-suffering, etc. Although these concepts have begun to change, the notion of honor in women continues to be a different issue from that of men, since a word is not enough to be believed, yet, in many cases, the honor of women must still be proven, explained, and thus ensure that their honesty is believed without any apparent doubt.

Honor is, therefore, an internal compass, which spreads good, credible, trustworthy and faithful words along our paths, those words that are increasingly difficult to hear, because as the world sees it, even a person's honor seems to disappear.
However, deep inside, I continue to believe in the honesty of good people, in the word of truth, heard with those eyes looking at yours, without blinking, just feeling the truth.

POEM: ROSE

Rose from my rosebush,
that every day gladdens
my soul, seeing you there
in the corner,
still, lush, calm
and peaceful,
that one that with red
passion,
covers every step
that my path
takes,
converted into
eternal, eternity,
because when I planted it,
it was offered to
Heaven itself, in honor of
that angel,
who in my mother's womb,
sang the song
of honor,
living in me,
offering next to
my soul, new
eternal love to God.

Are We Independent? Understanding Our Choices & Marketing Influence.

Have you ever found yourself contemplating the motivations behind your actions? Why do we often find comfort in following the crowd? How do we establish our goals and preferences? Do we exert control over our choices, or are they dictated by our subconscious? These questions lie at the heart of understanding our decision-making processes and navigating the complexities of a world heavily influenced by marketing and media.

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The Impact of Marketing

Since the groundbreaking work of Philip Kotler and his contemporaries, marketing has undergone a revolution, subtly shaping our behaviors and preferences. Advertisers have mastered the art of crafting messages that appeal to our subconscious desires, effectively influencing our decisions without our conscious awareness. As a result, we find ourselves unwitting participants in a carefully orchestrated network where our choices often align with the commercial interests of those behind the advertisements.

Conscious Decision-Making or Manipulation?

Consider a typical scene: you're seated in a bustling café, observing the conversations swirling around you. It doesn't take long to notice that many of these discussions revolve around the latest television show or must-have product, all fueled by the persuasive influence of well-crafted advertisements. What may initially appear as casual chatter is, in fact, a testament to the strategic manipulation employed by brands to capture our attention and drive consumer behavior. This calculated effort ultimately serves to bolster sales and enrich a select few, perpetuating a cycle of dependency on marketed goods and services.

Creatures of Routine

Human beings are creatures of habit, prone to seeking comfort and familiarity in our daily lives. We place trust in familiar sources of information, such as news outlets, under the assumption that they provide unbiased perspectives on current events. However, in an age where media narratives are often colored by underlying biases and agendas, our perceptions of reality become increasingly distorted. This pervasive manipulation extends beyond traditional forms of media, permeating various aspects of our lives and shaping our beliefs and opinions in ways we may not fully comprehend.

Automatic Choices

How often do you take a moment to reflect on the decisions you've made throughout the day? Have you ever experienced a pang of regret upon realizing that a better alternative was available? These instances serve as poignant reminders of the power of intuition in guiding our actions, often leading us to make choices without thoroughly evaluating the consequences. While intuition can serve as a valuable asset in certain situations, it can also prove to be a double-edged sword, susceptible to exploitation by savvy marketers and salespeople eager to capitalize on our subconscious impulses.

The Double-Edged Intuition

Multinational corporations understand the innate propensity of individuals to rely on gut instincts when making decisions. They leverage this insight to orchestrate sophisticated sales processes designed to subtly influence consumer behavior, creating the illusion of informed choice while subtly steering individuals toward predetermined outcomes. In this way, intuition, once regarded as a reliable compass for decision-making, becomes a potential pitfall, leading us astray and fostering a sense of disillusionment with the products and services we've chosen.

Liberating Ourselves from Manipulation

To break free from the cycle of manipulation perpetuated by marketing and media, we must cultivate a heightened sense of awareness and critical thinking. Before succumbing to impulse purchases or forming opinions based on superficial information, take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself probing questions: What are my true motivations for wanting this product? Are there alternative options that better align with my values and preferences? Seek out the perspectives of others and explore trial periods for products and services before committing to long-term investments. By adopting a more discerning approach to decision-making, we can reclaim agency over our choices and chart a course guided by our genuine desires and needs.

In Conclusion

In a world inundated with marketing messages and media manipulation, the ability to think critically and independently is paramount. By questioning the underlying motives behind our actions and scrutinizing the sources of information we encounter, we can empower ourselves to make decisions that truly reflect our individuality and aspirations. As we embark on this journey toward greater self-awareness and autonomy, let us remain vigilant in our pursuit of truth and authenticity, ensuring that our choices are driven not by external influences, but by the inherent wisdom and discernment within us.

Will the corruption in our world ever stop?

Do you ever secretly do something that is not possible, or allowed? Do you secretly park your car somewhere where it is not allowed, for example in a disabled parking space, or do your business in the middle of the night behind the church? Were all your possessions legitimately acquired by you? Do you "neatly declare all your income to the tax, and never jockey?" You never fool another human being when you act or speak to this person?

So, you are completely eager?

You are eager, and you only have honest people around you. You are also responsible for your life partner and for your children. You come from an honest and well-behaved family. You have always behaved according to the existing rules. You have learned this from your parents since childhood. Behaving honestly is in your blood. You have always been annoyed by the unfairness in our world. And you are pleased that, in your opinion, there is more and more improvement in our world in this regard.

Are you with the right bank?

You will undoubtedly have made the choice of the bank with which you do your banking business with great care. You probably also sit at a green bank? Green is, isn't it: "Treat each other nicely?" Green is the color of respect, isn't it? These banks promise to invest our money in environmentally friendly business and other honest business? These banks are very often part of larger global banking conglomerates where things sometimes go wrong, but they are as green as grass. In any case, they will make sure that you can think that they are handling your finances in the right way.

Do you donate to charity?

Of course, you also make sure that you spend enough money on the so-called charities. You choose these goals yourself based on the way in which they present themselves to you. You can be sure that your money will go to the causes that these foundations have mentioned to you. What you and I often forget is that these foundations do spend an awful lot of money on promotion on commercial TV channels. A thirty-second commercial can easily cost quite a bit, and the average charity director no longer works under two hundred thousand a year, but then again, they are charities. An additional advantage that our society has arranged is the fact that we can also deduct part of these donations from our tax bills, so what are we complaining about?

You are well behaved?

In our experience, we do things right and we have our affairs in order.

We are eager, and we have always cracked down on corruption whenever it is in our power. So, we're doing very well. Together, we are very happy with all the rules that have been drawn up to combat corruption. We are glad that we have a Europe, and an excellent tax administration that watches over us as our watchdog. We have Europol, a European collaboration of police organizations such as the FBI and the CIA in America, and in addition to our green bank, also the European bank. Money transactions are so well organized that I hear more and more of my friends talking about the fact that they don't fully trust everything anymore. Some of these friends are already talking about money-filled old socks under their bed, or in their linen closet.

Do you feel safer and understood?

Lovely all neat people around us and a perfectly functioning board throughout Europe! Well, that's what I thought until I turned on my radio this morning and listened to a news broadcast. The broadcast I listened to was about those directors. There was talk of administrators from Europe and the USA who were playing politics with Russia and China. These politicians do not seem to be averse to a few bribes here and there. Kickbacks that they receive if they give these countries small advantages or if they let the decision fall in the right direction. In the past, not so long ago, we used to call this corruption and receiving bribes. But then again, times change, but we wanted to eradicate corruption, didn't we?

Beyond corruption?

In the sixty-two years that I have been alive now, I think that has been the motto, at least if I have understood correctly? In this morning's radio broadcast, there was also an interview with a corruption specialist who, to my surprise, casually claimed that there was no way to prevent these things. After all, today's technical possibilities and ICT facilitated these things. He called it all not that important and almost impossible to control and prevent.

So don't worry.

I then thought, "Why have I been so careful all these years, and why have I lived so neatly all these years?" Why have I always thought that the leaders and politicians of this world gave us a "good example" and that good example makes us follow suit? In short, we are starting all over again! Keep children away from the radio, computer, and TV, because otherwise they might follow the "good" example of the administrators and politicians. How a person can make a mistake and be fooled.

Explained: Relationship of open integrity defines your Love or attraction

In relationship there are two different things, joy and pleasure. All of them are dependent upon your integral part of your real life. How to keep limited to someone is a core reason behind the myth.

Explained: Relationship of open integrity defines your Love or attraction
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What is our physical energy?

There is energy in our body that produces every time and ready to transfer from one person to another. That physical energy gets a transfer from one person to another when we touch. There is an phenomenon of exchange of energy. Touching someone physically for the first time, only that point of time you will feel that energy. The more you do, the less you survive, or joy of it gets reduced. That energy remembers you for your lifetime.

However, If you are giving a session at a seminar and you are a famous personality. Thus because of your fans, you shake hands and give hugs to each and every person in the audience. You are releasing positive energy that took years to store in your body. You will quickly exhaust your energy. In short, you are giving access to an integral part of your body. To avoid these release of energy. Keep minimal access to your body from the foreign touch.

Another Example of Difference between Joy and Pleasure in Relationship

The same way, loving someone and having a physical relationship with someone who is a choice of one of a person. Therefore, one wishes to keep physical relation with many others, later that person will have pleasured every time he has sex, but there will be no joy. Not only love, but every other thing in this universe is enjoyable when you are not a frequent user of someone or something.

Long-distance relationship

Suppose, If I am in a long-distance relationship, work in a metro city and my partner is in hometown. Once in three months, I visit her. There is a different joy that I can’t find in every day. Her strong touch will make me an extraordinary lover. This is not only in the relationship, but I can apply everywhere to everything in this holy universe. As well as, if I visit the Taj Mahal for the first time in my life, I touched those rocks, that memory soon would be attached to my body and will be forever. The joy is real.

What if I work there permanently? I won’t feel any special and strong about it. Thus, you will be no more to keep yourself integral to that place. That means you have lost the integrity of the Taj Mahal. Hence, if you lost your integrity to the sex, you will lose the real joy, the pleasure will be there for sure. Shaking hands, hugging someone, that means you have no integrity to yourself. You are a page of an open book that was read by many people. The importance and the joy of reading has gone.

Having sex with others defines the same way in today’s literary world. People start shaking hands, hugging them, some other way they are losing their integral part (joy of life). One must confine their energy within their self.

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Life of a human cycle

The life of any human is defined, the human life cycle completes when the moon does his 1008 cycles. It is divided into three quarters. In the first quarter, exchange of the energy happens from mother to child. After that, child to confine it and make it integrated. If someone wants to nurture it for the living. Life becomes hell when there is no joy in life. If any individual did not get that touch from her mother, there is no chance after passing of the first quarter. Why many ancient Indian cultures still are there? Many other spiritual gurus are there who gives you NO HUGS and HANDSHAKE. This is the reason why they are the most integrated person.

Mencius’s mother moved three times, What does it mean? The idiom was well famous and simply says that to grow a kid in an environment of wise thoughts (keep integrity). However, mother of Mencius moved or changed three times while traditional education to her son and keep away and saved from bad thoughts. The Chinese culture considered one of the wast and oldest of the world out of the four measure civilizations, Babylon, India and Egypt.