On The Edge Of The River: Incredible Universe Created by God

Summer times are so annoying most of the time, in almost all the parts of India. It was a time when I was a child, was completing my Highschool studies. My native place is the pure village, all day long I could hear bellowing from cow's or sheep's and sometimes Bullock's. It is particularly in the morning time around 10 AM and evening time at 6 PM. A day when summer was going on and it was so hot. Nobody could dare to come out of the house in the afternoon, can you guess what temperature it would have been there? Unbelievable, it was 42°c. It reaches almost all the east-north part of India, including Maharashtra in Vidarbha is extremely hot. So I was looking for going outside near the edge of the river. I was waiting for the evening when I will go and sit there for an hour to get refreshed. Those days had no tension of my exams, resting and holiday from the school was going on.

My body was giving an odor of sweat sitting at home and because of hot weather, sometimes when there is no electricity. It was the village and there is no guarantee of it, especially in the summer there was no electricity for 6-12 hours. Most of the time I have done my studies under a kerosene lamp for hours. I got happy when I heard the sound of feet, cows, and bulls were returning home. I wore my old sleeper, started heading toward the west. My house is at east and river at west, I have to walk almost a kilometer to reach there. It is one of the second best places of my village. The 1st one is a big temple of Bajarangbali, most of the marriages happen there. It was 6 PM, narrow road, hardly one truck could travel, I was walking and domestic animals were coming from the opposite side. I do not scare of these animals, but one out of these could be dangerous, so I was watching carefully and walking. One stupid cow was passing through my left arm, it was walking on the wrong side, she looked at me with her big eyes, I speed up my walking but she hits her tail on my bum. I rubbed it and looked at her with my weird look.

It was fine rather than facing her with different actions, she had pointed horns. So finally I reached my favorite place for the day. It was after a long time I came. I was so sad when I came to know that there is very little water left. All other parts of the river were almost dried. All white bolder stones, rock were opened and dried. When I roam over the sand, I saw dead bodies of tiny fishes, I took one silverfish size of my little finger, it was almost weightless. I found a small pond and live fishes, even their life was too dangerous. Birds were watching their moves carefully.

What a great life God has created for everyone, it is a cycle that everybody has to pass through. One wild dog came there searching for the water, how water is important in the summer to ask for that dog who all was tired, thirsty and hopeless. But still, that dog keeps searching, he went on the other side of the river.

I sat on a rock, the edge of the river. The birds were going home, the sun was red, few minutes were left to hide it. I looked at the trees was all happy and waving in the cool air. I was feeling a bit of ease and comfort. I wished if I could bring a book and read till 8 PM. But I had no option like today, I am sitting on the footpath in the big city where there is attached little free area, most of the citizens come here in the evening and spend their lovely time with the environment.

The Long Distance And Love Both Are Beautiful in The Life :They are Co-exist in Relationship and Dating.

The distance brings the changes in life, when you love someone and living alone, it automatically gives birth to care and love. The care that will make you more concern about that loving person and the love that keep on increasing in the life for that individual. In a long distance relationship, many are successful examples in front of us. There are specific reasons behind that and that is we are going to talk about.

Most of the soldier's life is based on these two things, they dream of love, house, romance, and their family. And I have seen many of them in the successful relationship till date. I can say they are king to maintain the healthy relationships. They found committed to each other for the lifetime. In India, there are many soldier families found in a village, after the completion on the certain bond of the service to the country, they are called well happily married family.

In modern society, we don't feel that touch due to the technology and growing senseless media. There is two to three break up, but still, there are no real feelings for love. There were days many lovers die in love stories for their first love. Those days I still remember when we had to wait a week or more to receive a message from our beloved through a postcard. There was a meaningful writing in the letters and nobody's sentiment used to hurt.

The pleasure of reading the card was awesome, those days I think will never return again. We used to wait to come everyone home, those readings could touch the hearts of every person.

If we do anything frequently, going on the date, calling continuously even though the next person is happily receiving the calls, chatting with your girlfriend that leads to confusion. It sounds somewhat fake, in the conversation, the questions being raised on the trust and thus that conversation keeps taking turns and twist. And overreact which cause a worse situation in dating as well as relationship nowadays.

The long-distance love makes good memories and we don't forget for the lifetime. The good mood asks us to surprise our love with anything, we visit once in a month and that love represents the value in both the person. The trust binds the togetherness in well manners and makes you a great couple that everyone wishes to have around.

The impact of these smartphone broke many relationships, we should give some space to our-self. Now, we can't live the life without the phone, it's as equal as two person is in life and handling them is a big task for the day. We understand it is that much of important, but give it at the specific time. Make yourself free like a bird, more usage of mobile increases your stress level and that sometimes spoils the mood.

Hobbies are the best terms when you are a frequent caller to your partner, get busy with one of the hobbies and make yourself bound and engaged. This will maintain your relationship and date your partner at the best intervals. This maintains the perfect space for each other and lives in the relationship for a longer period.

Thus the distance plays an important role in life, the frequency of your calls, chat and other things should be limited which enhance the healthy relationship.

Indian Economy: Good Government Should Provide Shelter First

Any of the government has to provide the three needs of the human, ignoring them, they keep petrol price high that is one of the shameful in Indian Economy. The Indian officials are lagging something, especially knowledge of the modern and poor society. Many India citizens are homeless in the metro cities, they are living on the rent, half of the salary gets utilized in the accommodation only. Where is the government focusing? They are busy making roads. But for what? Where the authority should focus on?

Indian Economy: Good Government Should Provide Shelter First.  Any of the government has to provide the three needs of the human, ignoring them, they keep petrol price high that is one of the shameful in Indian Economy. The Indian officials are lagging something, especially knowledge of the modern and poor society. Many India citizens are homeless in the metro cities, they are living on the rent, half of the salary gets utilized in the accommodation only. Where is the government focusing? They are busy making roads. But for what? Where the authority should focus on?
Indian Economy: Good Government Should Provide Shelter First | Photo by David McBee on Pexels.com

I got many questions in my head, what is wrong in the system and what part of India should be developed? A small guy can tell the basic needs of a human, then why the management does not know? There is only a main reason, either they are rich enough. Hence, they don't understand the problem of middle-class people.

Indian Economy is on The Edge

They must carry out one mission, provide a home for homeless people, with 80% of subsidy policy. But where goes wrong? They have land they can provide with lowest EMI to the public only for those who have no piece of land on their name. I heard about Gharkul (a scheme for homeless), it is for villagers, but there is no income source for farmers. If there is any scheme for urban middle-class, then nobody knows about it.

However, in India, it is wrong. In most of the cities, the only land is very costly, government rates are less (Just for the announcement) and those land buy other landlords and sale it with double or triple profit. It is illegal. Sale of land this way should be banned. Any of the state management should have authority to sell the land only, no other dealers.

PMAY (Pradhan Mantri Avas Yogana)

Therefore, in reality, it does not happen, these people (system and rich men) are making money and sucking the fresh blood of the poor. But somewhere it has to be stopped. The rules need to be amended, the constitution needs to rewrite. PM Narendra Modi offers 2.75 lacs for those who have no property, and it is for their first home (when you buy a flat). However, the home cost around 20 to 30 Lacs per 1BHK. It is just an amount of GST that the government is offering. What a shame. What I urge to feel that GST along with Subsidiary should be given.

Wrong System

The reason for the high price when we buy open plots are only because of the system. They shouldn't allow builders to sell at that price, or it should not go beyond that limit of dedicated slot price area wise. Shelter, Food and Clothes are essential elements of life and should be provided at a reasonable price. Buying a home nowadays is life's biggest task for the family member than marriage expenses. This thing should be considered by the government of any country and provide the best assistance in purchasing.

In the ancient time, once I had heard that, getting married and building a house was very difficult for the common man, that time the land was free even though, it was difficult. Now the land cost you more than the construction amount. We are not blind, we also understand that population is increasing and revenue of the system is also keep up (we are paying the taxes).

Useless expenses will ruin all the system's management of any country. There should be great expenses handling body. The authority is corrupted, anybody will easily say, looking at the condition of the middle-class people. The Metro train is waiting for people to serve better, the authority has spent billions, just for transport. What about home? They must invest in the home rather. How people will afford to travel on the train if they don't have their house. The management is fundamentally wrong here. Or else a common man will die without their dream home.

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In the many cities, they had set up BRT (special for rapid bus route transport) for speedy transport facility. Now they have broken that road and set up big pillars for Metro train. This is just a waste of money or what? Our money is just wasting for no reason. Nobody cares about it. Government hospitals are useless, they are not taking care of the patient. It has been built just to show that we exist to help you, but 10% of people go there for treatment and return losing their beloved in the hospital (many lost the death there). Everyone hates that hospital. This is the fact every single person knows, but there is no improvement. Take one more step ahead, Modiji.

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Trekking On A Nearest Hill With My Parents

It was a Friday evening, spending the entire week at home alone is very difficult to ask me. I want to breathe a fresh air, away from the polluted city. Though we stay at city annex, 30 km from the heart of the city and still feel the air pollution around my city.

I thought to go to a hill that I never been to before. I cried and forced my dad to go somewhere. My mom and dad had taken me to many places but today we came to a strange place. The place that was so sloppy, green and cold. For a moment, I felt that I opened the door of our refrigerator. A smile of happiness and a bit of confused mind feeling a magical place. It was awesome. My mom just placed me on the ground mix of yellow and green grass.

The cold air sometimes used to passes through my ear or sometimes feeling my hair dancing around it. A never notice strength had come in my arms and legs.

"A different kind of laugh and smile appeared on her face," my mom said to my dad.
I simply looked up at them, smiled and set my way ahead. I could not stop myself roaming around the place.

Look at these pictures, how did I enjoy my day at this hill, I don't think so that this would be a treasure as I won't remember at all. If these pictures are saved even though this would be just a digital memory that's it.

Everyone is in love with diwali, I listed My Diwali Status crushing every time

In India, one of the most important festivals is Diwali. Everyone goes to shopping one month in advance. Therefore, their diwali status may show how they are rich by money and heart. However, these traditional rituals are getting vanishing every year.

Everyone wants to go to their hometown, meet parents and old friends. We just celebrated away from our parents and relatives. The happiness was with us, for that, we started the day early in the morning on the day of Goddess Laxmi Puja.

This festival is pure of light, the entire house, doors, windows, corridor, and verandah with full of Diyas. We also put artificial light to make our home beautiful. On that day, we dress up more than in any marriage or party. And for farmers, the crop has already arrived at their home, and thus it is a big celebration for them. The most guys keep the diwali status on WhatsApp.

Every person of the house tries their best to decorate and light the house, before the season of diwali starts, they dust off the house, paint it nicely. For the entire five days, people decorate with Diyas, bulb, paintings, and the most famous Rangoli around the house. This is all being done for just to welcome Goddess Laxmi and at the evening time, Laxmi puja happens at every house devotion of gold, Money, and Diyas.

Traditional diwali poojas
Traditional diwali poojas

Light every diyas and placing at every door, windows and into the corridor. When these diyas placed the Laxmi enters the house—This is what we Indian thinks, the crore of people follows this holy practice traditionally. This was one of the best Rangoli of the day, it was looking so beautiful at night and quickly changed me and my thoughts.

This Rangoli was also looking great under the light of diya, as simple as it is.

Basil plant in Indian traditional way in the verandah

This is the holy basil plant everyone wants in front of their house – in front of a window or the main entrance of the house. Every day in the evening time, one diya should be placed, and a prayer must be done. But now in urban life, diwali status gradually vanishing, I find the new generation rarely keeps it in the house. However, either they don't know the benefits or the importance of it

This Rangoli was also looking great under the light of Diya as simple as it is.

This is how we decorated the entrance of Goddess Laxmi, footprints pointed inward of the house. It is a symbol of a warm welcome.

The cracker tree was looking simply so beautiful, but disappointed due to pollution. Therefore, I am not the only one, but the crore people do it, and it is very harmful to the environment. The government of India should stop burning these firecrackers, let simply burning of diyas would be no harm and looks elegant and innocent way with pollution free celebration.

Egg and Bread: This Breakfast Over My Stupid and Nerdy Morning

The most favourite food loved by bachelors, bread, and eggs. If suddenly your resting body wakes up and all the relaxed mode converts into muscular tension. That tension brought a headache and makes your body warm and sick. And the next day suddenly attacked your throat. Do you guess what would happen? Of course, you do, but what would you do after if your cough continued for the entire month and so on? What home remedies you will try to cure it?

The same thing had happened to me last month. It was painful, sudden and weird. My cough sometimes makes me do a cough continuously for five minutes without rest. It's been years from this is happening. If I check with a doctor, they will simply say it's normal and viral infection.

I studied in science, any virus lives on a host at the certain favourable temperature, if that warmness or coldness changes in the body, the virus will go away, and it will be cured very soon.
The climate changes are the main reason for this catastrophe if you are going out and caught by rain in the middle of the way and the cold air puncture you both the ears, which you will suddenly catch a fever.

I had antibiotics tablet to cure that cough, but then it was not healing the problem, my dry cough suddenly attack me when I work in the AC rooms. So, here I suppose to stop going in cold. In short, I need more warm food and acidic one.

Mother, neighbour, and relatives keep giving me suggestion and finally, my mother's thought and I captured a word, 'warm food'. If I eat that food for the next two-three days, my cough will go away. And that was true. So, I bought a dozen eggs early in the morning, made my day start with non-veg. (We call it non-veg food if we add Eggs in our meal)

I fate two eggs in a bowl and made an Egg fry and two toasts and kept two more boiled eggs with sprinkled spices will work enough for treatment. The Eggs are very acidic and keep your body warm enough to make run-off that virus from your body.
I have done this on my risk, do not try before you visit your doctor. I had done it on my own risk. Furthermore, I got the result.

Winning Over the Bad Habits

After a long time, I touched the cold bottle in the hot summer, the beer was ready to ooze out of it and was waiting for gulps into a strong muscular hot stomach that was craving and hungry enough to meet each-other desperately. After a 20 km traveling in the Vidarbha, the hottest place in Maharashtra, India.

A thought that was going for many months, Once upon a time I was having a beer every weekend but since I got into married life, it was quite difficult to maintain that habit. My stupid part of the brain reminded me thousands of time, the time spent with my bachelor friends evoke the ideas over and over again.

My positive thoughts from my wife and a child resist many times not to go for alcohol. Finally, last night my cherish days burst into the happiness that my positive thoughts couldn't hold anymore. I soon as I rushed into the hall, I kicked off my shoes, picked up the sack of my office, wore my homy slippers and quickly disappeared.
Last night, my little small and lovely family went to my native place. After see off them I returned back to home in the hot summer, traveled in my car's annoying and frustrated AC that I was trying to repair for the last two days- the blower fan was not working. Later, I discovered that It was just a matter of loosed wiring of the ac.

Daring again going into the hot sun on the bike gave me little pleasure of warm air but still was feeling better. That at least made me dry from my stinky sweat. I   came back in 10 minutes with a bottle of chilly beer. I already had told the shopkeeper that I am so exhausted and I need a frozen beer. I was pretty sure that till I return back home, its temperature going to rise.

I was so happy I after I made my seating arrangement, a snacks bowel, Biryani, salted peanuts. All was handy and switched on the TV, closed all the windows and curtains, made my room all dark. It was such a dark that I had to put a light on. Now all was set, I turned my TV channel to Star Movies and took a sip of my most awaiting icy beer.
I as swallowed my first gulp, my face signed of a weird taste. It was obvious, the man was drinking the beer after a long time and my bad habit was almost overed and many times my positive mind tried to resist it but it couldn't and I bought the bitter taste. For a moment I was dumb and waited to give sometimes to recalled my old memories that how I used to finish in few gulps but now a bit was difficult to digest. I understood the simple reason.

If the man starts eating, drinking or smoking. In a few days it becomes a bad habit and then body start living in a different phase, unhabitual era and then it keeps adjusting its hormone. After a few days, the brain starts functioning in such a way and send the signals to nerves want more and more...

I tried the second gulp and I vomit my lunch. I just threw my beer bottle into the dustbin

The Rising of #MeToo in India

#MeToo India





The rising of #MeToo in India has recently started, this is a good initiatives that taken by few people. Now Indian woman can freely mark herself a survivor of sexual harassment and government can take action against sexual abuse at the workplace.

The #MeToo has risen when a Bollywood actress, Tanushree Datta has stated unpredictable, misbehave done with her by her co-actor Nana Patekar ten years before. To what extent it is true only she knew about it. Other say that she is doing publicity to get a job in Bollywood again. As per the news source, this has happened during a song shoot in presence of a famous choreographer Ganesh Acharya.

All of them who she claimed said that whatever allegation she puts are the false statement and said "It had never happened with her. on the set" the director, producer, actor and choreographer have denied her statement in front of the media.

One by one, the group of Bollywood actress has revealed many names of the actors and producers who commit sexual assaults with women and Indian women are now cascading this information through #MeToo India. You can also find more about MeToo on the Twitter account.

Now the government of India taking it seriously and set up a group of officials for preventing such crime at the workplace. Now many organisation promises that such sexual misconduct will never happen, they keep saying and assuring women employees. Apart from high society, this is regular practice men are doing within the middle-class family too. What about them and who raise a question of their security?

There are some villages where Police stations are far away and some of the officials are interconnected with suspects, those family just return home with the curse of others scolding. Many girl and woman victims in India died of such bad saying of neighbours and many kept it secret and again many times became the prey of those same criminals.

There are several cases still pending in the court from ages, rape case in India is a serious matter and after many jurisdictions sentenced life imprisonment, the crimes are increasing. This lust of love destroyed many families made home a graveyard over the night.

Morning Fresh Air

I have been watching my routing since long back, from my school days to my office life. All I can say that everything in this universe is for a cause. All the human being helps each other. If one fails, everyone fails at somewhere in life.
Thus, when I wake up, I must breathe fresh air. The sunlight gives you a visit at your front door every day. A house should be constructed in such a way. However, when the bird starts chirping, that's the natural alarm that you should wake up.
As soon as the soft sunlight flashes into your eyes, dependably you should have it at least for fifteen minutes, that is the minimum requirement of our body.