10 Swami Vivekananda Quotes In Hindi give Tons Of Learning

Swami Vivekananda, born Narendranath Datta, was an Indian Hindu monk, philosopher, author, religious teacher, and the chief disciple of the Indian mystic Ramakrishna.

These top 10 Swami Vivekananda quotes in Hindi have profound meanings and if we implemented those in our life, we can live a peaceful life. Swami Vivekananda's books and lectures are almost world-famous. Those life percept lectures inspire human beings. He mostly focused on Karma and its fruits. These quotes translated from Hindi to English.

Those meaning of the quotes from Vivekananda has high impact on human and shapes our mind and body to prepare in life for better living. These quotes are examples from his books and lectures.

जो अग्नि हमें गर्मी देती है, हमें नष्ट भी कर सकती है। यह अग्नि का दोष नहीं है

स्वामी विवेकानंद

The fire that gives us heat can also destroy us. it's not the fault of the fire.

Swami Vivekananda

यह देश धर्म, दर्शन और प्रेम की जन्मभूमि है। ये सब चीजें अभी भी भारत में विद्यमान है। मुझे इस दुनिया की जो जानकारी है, उसके बल पर दृढतापूर्वक कह सकता हूं कि इन बातों में भारत अन्य देशों की अपेक्षा अब भी श्रेष्ठ है

स्वामी विवेकानंद

This country is the birthplace of religion, philosophy, and love. All these things still exist in India. I can firmly say based on the knowledge of this world that India is still better than other countries in these matters.

Swami Vivekananda

तुम्हें कोई पढ़ा नहीं सकता, कोई आध्यात्मिक नहीं बना सकता। तुमको सब कुछ खुद अंदर से सीखना है। आत्मा से अच्छा कोई शिक्षक नही है। आपकी अपनी आत्मा के अलावा कोई दूसरा आध्यात्मिक गुरु नहीं है

स्वामी विवेकानंद

No one can teach you, no one can make you spiritual. You have to learn everything from within yourself. There is no better teacher than the soul. There is no other spiritual master apart from your soul.

Swami Vivekananda

भय और अपूर्ण वासना ही समस्त दुःखों का मूल है

स्वामी विवेकानंद

Fear and unfulfilled lust are the root of all sorrows.

Swami Vivekananda

जितना हम दूसरों के साथ अच्छा करते हैं उतना ही हमारा हृदय पवित्र हो जाता है और भगवान उसमें बसता है

स्वामी विवेकानंद

The more we do good to others, the more our heart becomes pure and God abides in it.

Swami Vivekananda

यदि स्वयं में विश्वास करना और अधिक विस्तार से पढाया और अभ्यास कराया गया होता, तो मुझे यकीन है कि बुराइयों और दुःख का एक बहुत बड़ा हिस्सा गायब हो गया होता

स्वामी विवेकानंद

If believing in oneself had been taught and practiced in more detail, I am certain that a great deal of evils and misery would have vanished.

Swami Vivekananda

दिन-रात अपने मस्तिष्क को, उच्चकोटि के विचारो से भरो। जो फल प्राप्त होगा वह निश्चित ही अनोखा होगा

स्वामी विवेकानंद

Fill your mind day and night with thoughts of the highest order. The result you get will surely be unique.

Swami Vivekananda

उठो, जागो और जब तक लक्ष्य की प्राप्ति ना हो जाये तब तक मत रुको

स्वामी विवेकानंद

Arise, awake and don't stop until the goal is achieved

Swami Vivekananda

जब तक आप खुद पर विश्वास नहीं करते तब तक आप ईश्वर पर विश्वास नहीं कर सकते

स्वामी विवेकानंद

You can't believe in God until you believe in yourself

Swami Vivekananda

हम जो बोते हैं वो काटते हैं। हम स्वयं अपने भाग्य के निर्माता हैं

स्वामी विवेकानंद

We reap what we sow. We make our own destiny.

Swami Vivekananda

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My neighbours: You must get reliable ones in Life

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There are maybe many types of experience from your neighbourhood, but my neighbour is unique, and very difficult to judge. However, these are the sweetest as well as bittersweet experiences.

Some of them are like the movie character, Totoro, and the other won't be able to sleep you the entire night. Therefore, you will learn how turning these paragraphs will understand why I am right and wrong sporadically.

For our life, we first select the area for living, and foremost, we look at our neighbours. Thus, so often, they become god and keep helping each other and the families. However, sometimes they behave cruel when money and power meets together. Therefore, choosing who are our neighbours are one of the most important factors of our living being.

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Nobody should get people like My neighbours

I live in the area where my neighbours are of two different types. One was hard and the other soft in their behaviours. We learn from both types of people. I am talking about them  when I was a kid. Every night the hard family used to be dunked and shout a loud around in the verandah. Thus, they used to abuse every alternate day without any reasons.

The family was unafraid and always ready for the game of dare and dangers. The other neighbour used to keep themselves away from any matter of concerns. We used to keep our window closed and doors and gate shut. This used to cause chaos around the one who has recently got married, and the society got a new member in the family. It was a public shame to hear such abusive language.

On the other hand, the soft family used to ignore them and do the same thing our family used to follow (shutting the house to ignore abusing language). You must be thinking that what I get or a new learning from this hard family. From his kid's bad habits, I used to learn for occasionally. However, those bad habits used to bring a strength in me when any guy used to mess with me.

Furthermore, soft-spoken family were also too useful in learning. When I used to involved in the fight of someone else, I used to cooling down the fight between the other guys. Thus, I used to get power remembering the bad family members. And, overcome my weakness by wining the hearts of the family, from whom I became very understanding guy (soft family influence).

Both the family were important equally. But when I read about the great Chinese philosopher, Mengzi. When he was a kid, and to get a quality environment, Mencius’s mother moved three times. It means she has changed the place of living three times to find a better and quality neighbours.

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However, the life consist of two things, bad and good, and happy and sad. Therefore, no one has escaped from this life cycle. Thus, I believe that both good and bad, which yield happy and sad life get posted to everyone from the account of god. The rules of almighty and nobody breaks free from it.

Furthermore, when I talked about the life cycle, one of the poems of Rumi from the book “The Masnavi” taught me different state of soul of every living being on the planet earth.

[…] I died to the mineral state and became a plant,

I died to the vegetal state and reached animality,

I died to the animal state and became a man,

Then what should I fear? I have never become less from dying.

At the next charge (forward) I will die to human nature […]

Therefore, neighbours are always good and bad, and they must exist around us and they always helpful for us in some other form. Thus, we should keep spreading love among them always. Both the form of nature of neighbours are essential at the end in the need. What are your thoughts on your neighbour's life, do not forget to put in the comment box.

Substitute for Disturb and stressful Notification

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The life becomes complicated and of harmful when the pop-up of a notification jumps on the screen. It somewhat asks you to surrender, surrender to the available options. The complications invite stress and much health evoking problems. However, we finally came to a conclusion that we need a change, to bring peace in life, we find a second-string alternative. I substitute many of them, I replaced smartphone to basic handset is one of those. You must be thinking I must have gone mad, or someone may be thinking a wise decision. I stopped using the smartphone in such world that without mobile the life almost is impossible. Therefore, through smartphone we can order from salt to jewellery, and it helps us to reach from one destination to another. As well as, we order food everywhere we go. The whole world is craving for it. However, if we use this mobile other than important things, it converts joy into stressful life.

Moreover, it has many benefits as well as drawbacks if we are not using it carefully. Many people in this world lost thousands of money due to fake transactions. The apps that steal your personal information, even your fingerprints, ultimately it makes you a beggar at the end of the day. In short, it takes all the control from you and make you under control. If someone hacked your phone, they probably would know about your personal information including, blood group, date of birth, mobile number, bank account number, and adhar number. Therefore, many other things which would help hackers to bullying you and can take away money, do kidnapping, and other criminal activities.

Apart from the criminal activities, it seriously has taken your precious time of your life. It has repealed the ability of self thinking. Therefore, taken away all your loved ones from the deepest point of your heart (the feelings which rarely work today). I am talking about a message when someone used to crave for reading on the letters. I could remember those days when I used to wait for a letter to come and read what my relatives used to send. The joy of reading them are not seen in my WhatsApp text. It only evokes anxiousness when someone does not respond after read, and eventually, it becomes nerve-racking. The average person is spending 25 to 40% of the day time on mobile and someone goes behind that.

What is happening from kids to adult is we see mobile screen continuously (thousand time greater) than we see or feel the harmful UV lights that come from the sun. However, our real emotions and feelings are hidden under the optical reality through the thousands of colourful light of the mobile. The beautiful nature has been replaced by our mobile screen, it could awake our vision but not rest of the senses. However, it may arouse but to the limited time, however, not real. The poem “how to live on the plant earth” by Nanao Sakaki really impressed me.

I made a bet to myself, I went to a hill where rained half an hour ago. I park my bike and climbed until a height where I can see beautiful trees. Moreover, I felt the cold waves, brushed away all my blur vision. Besides, I was feeling a bit stressless, fresh and full of memories to cherish. For the moment, I was feeling emptied and unprocessed as soon as I took a few deep breaths. It was like a breath of life, breath of being a stressless human and more in state of cleanliness. Therefore, I was feeling like I had become a water drop that flows from the top of the Himalayas. I could feel that all my senses were functioning with full fledge.

Moreover, this feeling was life’s cherish movement. I was feeling a person of a clean memory, just like woken up from the sleep. Such import can be done every day, and it is often possible to achieve when we spend our life in and around the nature. Furthermore, Saint Tukaram explained the prime importance of the blessed nature in his poem, Vrukshavalli Amha Soyari. We made ourselves habitual of living in a cage of tall buildings around suffocated aisles which travel to no more natural things. We could see only human made everywhere. Furthermore, if any tree branch disturbing our balcony or window view, we cut it down without a second thought.

I cried out loudly to the sky to relieve all the tenseness from eyes, cheeks, nose, and breath.

The tenseness present in the every part of the body. Even our hair sometimes also looks electric. The fresh hair appears only when we wash it, rub it and do some massage after the bath. Thus, I realized the difference between watching things on mobile than the real. It is the coolest, easiest example.

It is true that more than my other important work, mobile was the first to disturb me. And, I tell you why? It has got many alerts and notifications from thousands of people and apps. Four thousand friends becomes 40 thousands when you have the same friends on 10 apps. Thus, there are 40 thousand notifications., moreover, other notifications including, bank massages, promotional messages and WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. The groups and chat of the other social networks. Oh my god. I feel that life built of only notifications.

These notifications refrained us from seeing and meeting real people, nature, reading books, newspapers, going to birthday parties, and sending traditional letters to our loved ones. It made us to believe in that doing birthday parties on the nomadic device is better than doing in person. What I have substitutes are below (I already started).

  • Microsoft WordPad to a diary and pen
  • A smartphone to basic handset (with limited apps)
  • Digital newsreader to Physical newspaper
  • Started using hard cash than other payment apps
  • Car and bike to bicycle (wherever possible)
  • Weekend in and around the nature than crowd places like market, theatre, or shopping malls.

When you are going to start adapting, put substitute and kill your grievous notifications?

Babasaheb Purandare: 1 wise truth “One who teach you whoever is your guru”

Balasaheb Purandare

Babasaheb Purandare (29 July 1922 – 15 November 2021) was a famous historian who was known for his writing and leadership. Purandare has directed, a well-known theatrical play, Janata Raja. The play became famous not only in Maharashtra, but in some other states of India as well.

Childhood of Babasaheb Purandare

From the beginning of his childhood, he was fond of travel, meeting people and visit the historical places in Maharashtra. He was born in Pune, Saswaad, Maharashtra to a well established, Brahmin family. The family of Purandare was in the field of art and social service. He married to wife Nirmala who she was a social activist and his multi-talented daughter, Madhuri Purandare, is an author, singer, and painter.

Babasaheb Purandare' interest

Babasaheb had a kin interest in history since he was very young. He used to visit forts, ancient temples with his father or grandparents and ask their unanswered questions them about the history of the place. Purandare had abundance of urge for writing for the great king Shivaji Maharaj.

A Maratha king of the 17th century who established the Maratha Empire. Hence, his writing got noticed and since then, he was called as Shivshahir Babasaheb Purandare (Bard of Shivaji) he wrote many notable works includes, Kesari, Thinagya, Raja Shiv-Chhatrapati etc.

Babasaheb Purandare in his one of the Interviews

In one of the interviews, he said that while his research in history about Raje (Shivaji Bhosale) he found many fake stories, people aggravated about the history of the king Shivaji which had no sense in his research. In one of the interviews, he narrated a story of the queen of England and his post-card. He explained that how he learned from a small mistake “how to give respect” to a nation, its people and learned a way to value it.

A story in London when Babasaheb Purandare was traveling

While he was staying in London, he wanted to send a letter to his family, so he went to a post office, already late. He quickly asked a ticket to a lady at the ticket counter. He could quickly post it on the letter and submit to them. It was a time of clearance of the letterbox.

As soon as the ticket landed into this hand, he pulled his tongue out and put enough of the saliva on the ticket and stuck on the letter in hurry. Thus, he handed it to the lady. Upon a positive node from the next person, Babasaheb Purandare turned back and started to leave.

Hello Mr!, Baba heard before he could take his third step. He returned to the counter and said what happened? The voice he heard was not familiar in tone. She handed the letter back to Babasaheb, “correct it”. He looked up into her eyes and said, I paid all the amount, and it does not matter that much if the ticket is upside-down.  … and what if I placed the letter into the letter-box? Nobody could have noticed it.

Babasaheb Purandare in 2004

Babasaheb Purandare
Babasaheb Purandare | i'mBiking credit to Wikimedia Commons

“Yeah, I can see that, whatever you are saying all is fine, but I cannot accept disrespect of my queen.”

Babasaheb Purandare said that it was the Queen of London on the ticket, which he had placed upside down. The spit was still there, he put his thumb and turned, and then the head of the queen was back to her place.

From the story he narrated, he learned how she was conscientious about her culture, people, values, and the respect for their nation. This incident taught him as well as us a valuable lesson. Thus, learning from every person, incidence, or things teach us something vital. The one who teaches us is our leader. We should never ignore small things, from these things that we get educated in our day-to-day lives.

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What Are Your greatest Strengths? Two things drive me, read those

Very simply put—life experience. You can be the most reclusive of hermits and still write wonderful fiction. But the inspiration will run dry unless you keep giving your mind something to think about. What are your greatest strengths? This could be going out into the world and trying new things; going to new places, or meeting new people.

However, it can also mean taking the time to learn a new skill or read up on a favorite niche topic. Really, anything that keeps the brain thinking about things will work its way into your creative life. Usually, it’s in the most unexpected ways. Also, keeping muses around, that is, people who inspire you or whom you can bounce ideas off, is really helpful eventually.

No matter how rampant that stereotype is, writing doesn’t have to be a miserable hobby for a solitary individual. Besides that, the most important thing is to let go of perfection and just let whatever is coming through do so without judgement. Not everything you write will be a bestseller, and some of the things you come up with might be. So bad they end up in the trash pile, but if you allow yourself to be paralyzed by perfection, you’ll never write at all and whatever gems you are capable of will die before they’re even born.

I was a very creative since my childhood

I was always a very creative child. I loved to tell stories and jokes to the other kids, but I never really wrote anything because my spelling was terrible at the time. I had this belief that being able to grasp proper grammar and spelling was what writing was about, so I didn’t feel like I was good enough to try my hand at it, even when I had several teachers disagree with me. The thing that changed all this was my sixteenth birthday. It was a really depressing event. I’d been out of school for two years (due to illness) and I invited all my school friends over, who I hadn’t seen in all that time. I was so excited. It was going to be the biggest, happiest party of my life.

But then the only people who showed up were my best friend and two boys who had a crush on me. I was devastated. Apparently, my school chums meant a lot more to me than I did to them. I didn’t know where to take my heartbreak, so I sat down and started to write. In doing so I didn’t wallow in my pain but instead rewrote the narrative to make the whole scenario funny — the sort of thing a stand-up comedian might do. And when I did that, I not only felt better about the whole thing, but I also spread a little joy in the form of laughter from the people who did read it. It wasn’t long before I was writing about other events in the same fashion and getting all sorts of positive attention.

People from all over were telling me my life was interesting, and although I had a hard time believing them, I kept on writing. Over the years, I perfected my art until I was able to cross the final threshold into fiction. Now I was free from the restrictions of reality and lived experiences. I could write about anything and anyone. In my adulthood, I have found this just as cathartic. And there’s something so life affirming about spreading joy, or hope, or little glimpses of wisdom. It’s really that fulfilment that keeps bringing me back despite all the other difficulties in my life.

This hardship does not let me sleep

I hate to admit this, but the best time to write is usually in the dead of night, when no one else is awake to disturb the creative flow. Plus, there’s something a bit magical about being up when no one else is. You get a whole new perspective on things when everything is quiet, people are asleep, and there isn’t anything but you and the relative silence around you. It makes it a lot easier to reflect, be one with yourself, and hopefully touch the creative source that inspires you. With that being said, it’s also a terrible schedule to be on if you want to get anything else at all done in your life.

So even a night owl like me had to eventually learn how to just operate on a more normal schedule. Currently, I try to do most of my writing whenever my brain is at full capacity — which is after I’ve eaten breakfast and dealt with anything that might distract my thoughts. It might be as late as dinner before I sit down and focus. It’s less about the timing and more about forcing me to write and hit my daily goals. As long as I have that daily goal lingering in the background, I will not be able to go to sleep that night without accomplishing it. For me, this is what has worked better than anything else. I even write on days when I feel like I have nothing worth writing — just to stay in the habit. And when I do take little breaks, I always find it hard to get back into the routine.

In my opinion, young writers is a need of today

Young writers are very much needed these days, our world is changing so fast that it’s really hard to keep up, and someone needs to be taking note of these changes. When I was  rowing up, I had to read all the classics — the vast majority of which were written by affluent older white men — the same stories that had been taught to my parents and grandparents. Therefore, this was somewhat OK for the time because so little had changed in society that they were still relatable, but there was also a lot missing in these narratives. There was such a large chunk of earth’s population that just did not see themselves in these stories, and that’s important.

Not just for the people who are longing for representation, but also for everyone else who is losing out on the opportunity to learn about people unlike themselves. And if there is anyone out there that is writing about these big issues of culture, gender, race, and identity, it’s going to be the younger generations. I hate to say it, but older authors have all been at least somewhat beaten down by life. Each one of us can point to a time when we’ve been silenced or dismissed, and this ongoing struggle can really make us a lot meeker than we used to be.

A lot less likely to blast our personal truths for the world to see. But young people… they have yet to be broken and if the world is ever going to change for the better it’s going to be because they are screaming as an entire generation for progress. And I can’t tell you how much it warms my heart to see this happening — this upcoming generation knowing that their story is just as important as some old white dude and telling it like it is! Will they make mistakes? Of course, we all do! Will they at times be a little too much? Always. But all that means is we, the older generations of authors, should be guiding them and helping them become even better. They really are our future.

My inspiration is not limited. It is for all the niches

Oh goodness, I don’t have a single niche. I write everything I feel compelled to — personal stories, travel blog entries, satirical takes on history, more scientific articles for laymen, and fiction that runs the gamut of genres. I will never be able to stick to one thing, and that’s

OK, because I can find a use for all of them. I think many writers encourage other writers to focus on one genre because it is far easier to market yourself if you have a singular voice. I won’t argue that point, but I just don’t think it works for me and my ADHD addled mind.

Furthermore, I go wherever the creative spirit takes me, and I don’t complain simultaneously! In fact, the whole process has been a wonderful avenue to learn and to practice catharsis. Whenever I come across, something that really bothers me. I find it helpful to write my characters into a different scenario, a better scenario. For instance, I got fed up with super dysfunctional (or downright abusive) relationships being shown as romantic, so now whenever I have love interests I try to write them as healthy, respectful, and loving. You might think this would make for a passive and boring read, but no! There are still lots of action and drama, it’s just not coming from the characters, it’s coming from the outside world they live in. It’s been a beautiful process and one that, I think, has over time made me a more kind and forgiving person.

My favorite book, “Achilles in Heels”

Wouldn’t that be nice to have a book that was genuinely popular! I’m afraid I haven’t gotten there yet, though I am certainly trying! Even so, I do harbor an intense affection for the last book I published: Achilles in Heels. It’s a modern retelling of the unusual teenage years of Achilles. Long before he was a Trojan war hero, his mother Thetis thought she’d protect him from his fated death in battle by dressing him up as a girl and hiding him in a harem of princesses. From here the book is about a very action-oriented Achilles dealing with all the usual trivialities of his teenage years but with the added complication of his secret identity. The simplest of things get twisted wildly out of control as he tries desperately to keep face. At his side is his closest friend Deidamia, a sharp-tongued and adventure prone princess who spends all her free time trying to thwart any possible marriage proposals thrown her way.

She provides a cynical yet endearingly funny perspective to every situation and sitting across from her, often in competition for Achilles’ attention, is his childhood best friend Patroclus.  Patroclus can’t compete with the cutting with of his companions, but what he lacks in mental prowess, he makes up for in heart. He pulls this unlikely ragtag bunch together in a soft and loving way, smoothing out issues that need a gentle touch. Together, they face the world with courage and audacity, learning all of life’s greatest lessons in one adventure after another. All three of these vibrant characters lived in my mind for about twenty years before I committed them to a book. And now they’re ready to be loved by the world just as much as they were loved by myself.

Reading the first chapter from the book, “Achilles in Heels”

My strength and the source of inspiration is Jack Kerouac

… I shambled after [them] as I've been doing all my life after people who interest me. Because the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time. The ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles…

Jack Kerouac

I read this quote when I was still a teenager, and it was only theoretical to me. I dreamed about a life where I would find fellow misfits and freaks. It would be a few years before I started meeting individuals who burned with the same intensity that is noted in this quote, and it took on a much greater significance to me. From there, I realized that there are a handful of individuals out there who are so completely their own person that literally everything else doesn’t matter. These have been my greatest muses, my deepest friends, my most beloved of romantic companions. They have inspired me just by existing and being themselves.

There’s a sort of chaotic, beautiful energy that comes from the excitement of reading them, whatever I am working on. It’s these people, the ones who get me, that are my most loyal of cheerleaders. They believe in my talent and vision even when I am at my lowest and just want to hide in the dark and pretend I don’t exist. And I hope I have, in return, encouraged them to be their best as well in whatever endeavors they chose. They have taught me that if I don’t fit in somewhere, or am unhappy with something, all I have to do is find others like me that can help me change the narrative. It’s been a remarkable journey this life of mine, and I am so grateful I have been able to express this in my writing.

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The Life Before & After Marriage

The marriage is a Devine or Wine. It is an immortal bond between the two soul and body. However, one should know how to run it. It is the same way, the way we have to first learn how to ride a bike. Therefore, without the knowledge, it becomes wine.

The feelings of being a married man.

If I talk about, how do I feel being a married man? There are many things. Consequently, unpredictable happiness is such a huge that it can't be told in the few words. Everyone has their definition, but this is mine. It was a day when I was working in the office and a thought came in my mind that doctor gave us due date 5th of Jun. 2017 to my wife. And I have to take leaves on those days and I had already told to my boss those tentative dates (baby delivery), but I was not that cautious enough. Those days were the starting of the relationship, unknown feelings of being fathering and husband. Many times laughing, I told my wife that I will make delivery of our baby at home (the old man's brain) and my wife including my mother and her mother laughed too.

Left those days when women deliver the baby at home.

We both were curiously waiting for our baby and other family members, including my parents. They were thinking that there is a boy coming home. But somewhere in my mind, a feeling of a daughter was holding the nerves tight. I remember, except me, no one was ready to believe that there was a baby girl breathing through the intestine of my wife. There was a reason behind that, in our family for many years first was a baby boy and then again a baby boy and third child used to be a girl from the last two generations.

Establishing the connections with wife

When I got married I was so happy choosing a girl by my father and I had told my father that I would love if you take a pride choosing a girl for me. And I also told him that I give you two year for this. And if you were unable to find the one, then let me handle this. I knew that it was a fair deal. In India, no father wants getting married his son/daughter without the permission of the family, especially it happens in love marriage. This is what I love India because we featured the great heritage. So, coming back to the point, how I had established the connections with my wife? Let me tell you first, though it was arranged marriage, we both fell in love when we saw each other for the first time. And our wedding date was almost two months late, and within those days our bond became so strong and with the cords wrapped around it of all the feelings. So, we both had such understanding that took place so smoothly after we got married.

Expectations and plannings after the knot

The expectations and planning are everyone's first things after the wedding, none of us that much lazy avoiding it. We both had many expectations too for each other and future planning. We were mad about our planning, like every night before bed our plans were changing like the wind shifts in any direction. It was that sudden as the dark cloud on the head disappears in a second and gives sunlight and vice versa.

My expectations from my wife were as simple as that, as like an old Indian married woman living their life. Neither was I looking for a wife who would be working in office nor simple one who behave and stands in military order. I was the one who wanted a wife who would be so romantic and stay at home. As well as, bear children, take care of them and be a good coach for our children's future so that she/he shouldn't forget our cultures which were living in both of us existed from many years. This was what I can say was planning. If I talk about my professional life, there was much planning, which I will discuss in my next blog.

Understanding level of the couple

When I was a child, I came to know that understanding plays an authoritative role in our life. If you don't understand your parents, then there won't be a love bond between family. One positive thought would bring much good understanding between us, and I used to do that. Hope and patience would help better in understanding in any couple. Thanks to God, that he has given me such good understanding parents and I inherited it. I always remember an old saying that “As the tree, so the fruit”. And I hope it inherits in my child too.

The Cares and Love in marriage

If you want to survive last longer in any relation do not forget two things that are love and care. In my case, as far as in my childhood I was a lovely and cute boy and the love which I got from my family was tremendous. And what I have learned from them was the exceptional experience and those learning would help me survive my relations with my loved ones. The things that had taught me by my parents and in the society where I lived is a simple mantra.

If you smile, in return, you will get the same.

One successful mantra

In my married life too, if it brings in the notice that this dose have been less, then I increase it. When I became a father, the love and care rose spontaneously. There will always be fights between husband and wife, and that is required to survive the relationship. Therefore, it reminds you to understand the value of Love and Care, somewhere you realize, run for it and bring the situations back to normal.

Yelling and joking in married life

I learned it from my group of friends, when yelling and joking sometimes make an irate friends happy. However, it sometimes also worsens the situation. That’s what we need to keep in mind. When there is any fight between us and the responsible one yells and jokes. We had already decided to overcome the anger by a sweet joke. I knew the anger is the biggest enemy of the human being. It is the only one who bodge the life of someone.

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Hobbies, Like and Dislike

One thing surprised me, that was our hobbies, like and dislike. They were the same. But only one thing brought in the notice that she does not bring her hobbies to life. I believe that it is hobbies that give us a meaning to our life. She likes to help me find a joy in my hobbies. However, her interests are also the same. Occasionally, we ended with a fight if the things won’t work properly.

Furthermore, read:

The Reasons Why We Love Camille Claudel 1988

The film Camille Claudel 1988, the love story of young French sculptor Camille Claudel (b. 8 Dec 1864–19 Oct 1943) that ends in paranoid and isolation. She renowned for her work in marble and bronze, “The Waltz” & “The Mature Age”. Her work held in the collection of the four major museums in the world.

Camille Claudel (b. 8 Dec 1864–19 Oct 1943) that ends in paranoid and isolation | i'mBiking

Daughter of a Farmer

A daughter of a wealthy farmer and landlord who got unconditional support from her father. She was born to Louis Prosper Claudel and Louise Athanaïse Cécile Cerveaux, an aristocratic affluent family. Her mother was catholic and a daughter of a priest. When her father came to know interest and soon decided to support her career, going against the family decision. Camille got absolute support mentally as well as financially from her father throughout her life.

Her most famous place she ever likes to live, especially in summer, was Villeneuve. Before she could pass 12 years of her age, she was creatively already playing with stones. However, irrespective of her talent, the unapproved relationship costed her Isolation till the last breath.

La Valse (The Waltzers): Created by Camille Claudel, protégé, muse, and mistress of Rodin. Conceived in 1889 and cast in 1905 with the Foundry Mark “Eugene Blot”. This is the first of these casts and is gilded | i'mBiking. — Wikipedia Commons

Work, Love & Affair

After early training from french sculptor Alfred Boucher, the unconditional love and affair of Claudel started at the age of 19 in 1883 with 43 year senior Auguste Rodin. There were almost 22 years of gap between them. In the movie Camille Claudel 1988, it did such a well that at IMDB received 4 starts ratings.

Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

Mark Twain

The love story started when she joined the Rodin’s workshop (who used to make erotic sculptures) and working for two years brought her fame and strong relationship between them. Both created Shakuntala which brought her prize, fame, and attention of the many critics. With the passage of time as the sun fades away, thus love between Claudel and Rodin soon devolved. Therefore, ten years of love after loss brought her in shock and both started living apart.

The life believes more in practical thoughts than the attached emotional facts. Thus, it drags you to practical life despite your emotions.

Lokesh Umak

Camille Claudel’s Letter to Auguste Rodin

Monsieur Rodin!

Since I have nothing to do now, I am writing to you again. I walked in the park, everything was already cleaned around, hay, wheat, oats, you can go everywhere, it is wonderful. If you are so kind and keep this word, paradise awaits us. For work, you will get the room you want. The mistress, I think, will be at your feet. She told me that I can safely swim in the river where her daughter and the maid bathe. There is no danger. If you do not mind, I will do so because it is a great pleasure, and it will save me from having to go to hot baths in the Aze. It would be nice of you to buy me a dark blue bathing suit with white trim, separate, a blouse and twill drawers (medium size). This can be done at the Louvre, or at the Bon Marche store, or at Tours. I sleep completely naked to imagine that you are nearby, but when I wake up, I am alone again. I kiss you. Camilla. Most importantly, do not fool me any more.

Loss of Love and Mental Health in the film Camille Claudel 1988

The ten years of the strongest affairs finally when came to an end in 1892 at the age of 28. Therefore, it is just a start of a better half of any other woman. Her work, “Clotho” (1893) and “The Maturity” (1895) display her broken life through her art. However, after the break-up, she did not get any help from the finance team of Rodin. Furthermore, Rodin, for their obsolete relationship, he tried to help Claudel. However, she refused. Despite carrying her broken heart and unforgettable 10 years of love and affair, Camille stood strong again for her followers.

Clotho” (1893) | i'mBiking — Wikipédia Common Camille Claudel — Torse de Clotho, 1893.jpg

Once the woman decided the end of the relationship, she hardly takes back.

The Claudel decided to move on. She was a nature lover from her childhood. She stood against her the past love experience contrary to her mental health and started to create again. Furthermore, she created her real work in 1897 with all the support. Not only that, but she also received some finance from her dear friends.

Rage & loneliness

The year ahead of 1899 started to lose the grip she had, and soon Claudel started living alone. Her mental health started disturbing extensively. Therefore, in ire, Claudel destroyed her work. In her complex state of mind, she started feeling that she is alone and all the world is against her. Her psychological condition became damn numbed. She found herself behind the bars of the door where she used to welcome the visitors and never allowed herself to social again.

The complete destruction of her work reported in 1912 and the following year, her the most loved person, her father, died in 1913. The health of Camille became more serious when nobody from her family informed about the death of her father. It happens mostly in the family when one decision goes against the majority of the family. In the case of Claudel, her father was the only person supporting to her career and the rest (her mother, brother, and younger sister) were against.

The family of Camille let her swim in asylum till the end. She died isolated alone in 1943 when she was 78. And her body never claimed by her family members.

A letter to her Doctor

I am reproached (what a terrible crime!) to have lived alone, spending my life with cats. I have felt persecuted. It is based on accusations that I have been imprisoned for five years and a half like a criminal deprived of freedom, deprived of food, fire, and the most basic essentials.

Furthermore, read the Complex Relationship Of Frida And Diego and the suicidal poet Sergei Yesenin: To Die, In This Life, Is Not New, And Living’s No Newer, Of Course.

You Will Never Believe These Truth Of Mirza Ghalib Shayari

Mirza Galib Shayari is a thing of today and tomorrow. Once he said: “We don't like running in our veins, what is blood when it doesn't drip from the eye.”

रगों में दौड़ते फिरने के हम नहीं क़ायल, जब आँख ही से न टपका… तो फिर लहू क्या है.

Ghalib

Writing such punchlines could only be the great and famous Ghalib (pen name). His real name was Mirza Asadullah Baig Khan Ghalib (27 Dec 1797–15 Feb 1869), Indian poet of 80s when Mughals were disappearing and the era uprooted by British Raj. His writing life began at the age of 11 in his favorite languages (Urdu and Persian). However, his audience loved his poetry in Urdu. He could also write and read Persian too.

Galib was born in Agra to Mirza Abdullah Baig and Izzat-ut-Nisa Begum. His mother was a Kashmiri. Ghalib saw pain and struggles since his childhood, he got his first shock when his father died. Ghalib was too young. His father died in the battle of 1803, the battle of Laswari. It was second Anglo — Marathi War occurred on November 1, 1803 near Laswari village, Alwar.

Therefore, the poet raised by his paternal uncle for few years, and again Mirza got another shock when his uncle passed away. During those days, his poetic tiny brain was under development through those ups and downs of his life. However, he grabbed those emotional era and imprinted inside his heart-to-soul.

Hindi Shayari (Kavita) by Ghalib

Di se teri Nigaah jigar tak utar gai,
dono ko ik adaa mein
razamand kar gai

Ghalib in Hindi

दिल से तेरी निगाह जिगर तक उतर गई,
दोनो को इक अदा में रजामंद कर गई |

Mirza Galib Shayari in English

From the heart,
your eyes went down to the liver,
agreed to both of them
in a single gesture

Marriage at 13 what brings miracle in life?

The sparkling thoughts started gathering in him at the age of 11 and got married at the age of 13. Does marriage teach a man like him? One who is very young to understand or to taste the life. How can one prepared to get married at such a young age? Therefore, his intelligence marked in the history through his imagination skills, mostly in love and affairs putting them together. It is possible when one who gone through sorrow and grief could be the one. Furthermore, reading this biography, it takes you through ups and downs from his young life to through married and then old age. Mirza Galib Shayari in India is famous across the country.

Dard jab dil mein ho
toh dawa keejiye
Dill hi jab dard ho
toh kya keejiye
दर्द जब दिल में हो
तो दावा कीजिये
दिल ही जब दर्द हो
तो क्या कीजिये
When the pain is in the heart,
give it medicine
Heart only when it hurts
so, what to do?

A Quote by Mirza Ghalib

This world is a child’s playground for me. A spectacle unfolds day and night before me.

Ghalib

According to Ghalib, the poet is one who gambled, got into the jailed and has beaten with sleepers by lovers. He exactly expressed to one who has many emotional attachments. The one who passed through many struggles, crimes could evoke a lot of emotions on pages. However, the life of Ghalib had never been a straight, simple, and easy. He was taught from the life’s great lesson and experiences. Therefore, it's inspired thoughts his soul built from. Once he was also fell in love, but jealousy had never been onto his mind.

Ghalib thoughts that loving a person does not mean achieving, staying together or take the control of it. But, love it from the heart, spend some time with the person you love, share good and bad experiences and support each other mentally. No one has been skipped the travel of life’s struggles. The poems of Ghalib also said that married life is a prison of sorrow from bondage, and one who is bound left no one free from them. In central Kolkata, free school street is now Mirza Ghalib Street.

Prison of Life according to Mirza Ghalib

The prison of life and the bondage of sorrow are one and the same
Why should man be free of sorrow before dying?

Ghalib

The book, The Last Mughal: The Fall of a Dynasty, Delhi, 1857 written by William Dalrymple wrote that Ghalib was called “ladies man” the most of his writings (Shayari and poems) written on love themes. His most loved city was Delhi,

“I asked my soul: what is Dilli, she replied: the world is the body and Dilli is its life.”

Furthermore, read soul scrubbing poem Vrukshavalli Amha Soyari by saint Tukaram and Saint Kabir's famous poetry searching for truth.

8 best positive life quotes: Learn Compassion, Truth, And the Way To Peace life

two women sitting on vehicle roofs

Positive life quotes from these Seven People Had Ultimately The Same Meaning, Looking At Peaceful Life. Their Words Are Not Less Than Any Magical Wand.

This is with the reference to the book “DnyaneswaraA Mantra for the new Millennium” edited by Proof Vishwanath Karad. He is founder and president of World Peace Centre.

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Here is a collection of positive life quotes that are evergreen and thought provoking.

Development of knowledge with wisdom compassion with love and moral characters only will lead to the well-being of the entire humanity.

Gautam Buddha

Lord Buddha (563 B.C. to 483 B.C.) ancient Indian philosopher also called as Gautam Buddha who lived through 5th century is still an embodiment of a truth, love, and compassion.

Development of knowledge with wisdom compassion with love and moral characters only will lead to the well-being of the entire humanity.

Gautam Buddha

Spiritual Jesus Christ was the first century Jewish preacher and religious leader also considered the son of God said,

The spirituality is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Jesus

India philosopher and greatest saint Dnyaneshwar (1275–1296) also called Mauli who wrote the worldwide famous eternal wisdom of Dnyaneshwari who also wrote Pasaydan. It had written in the 18th chapter of Dnyaneshwari, representing a prayer in the form of a verse as a holy offering to God at the end of Dnyaneshwari.

The god has no form, colour, and shape. I have seen and experience closely through my own inner eyes.

Dnyaneshwar Maharaj

The light which Dnyaneshwar had seen was Devine light of knowledge. The God is moderately the ocean of knowledge. No other thing than divine knowledge is virginal.

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After reading these positive life quotes, everyone can acquire such divine knowledge

The one who is a true believer in the selfless action with a sense of devotion. And practices of transcendental meditation can acquire this knowledge over the period of time. Leading to this, the faithful person who has complete control on organs of the senses. However, the one acquired it attends the supreme state of peace of mind and the life full of bliss.

I’m the smallest of the smallest of the small particle of this universe, which can encompasses the entire universe — meaning thereby I can take the minutest form even smaller than the item, but I am all-pervading.

Saint Tukaram

Saint Tukaram (19 March 1650) was a 17th century poet (Poem Vrukshavaalli Amha Soyari Vanchari By Saint Tukaram Maharaja) said,

There is no other happiness like peace, everything else finds only sorrow. Peace in life is an ocean full of happiness. All the sorrow and worries will go away, and you will sail smoothly throughout the journey of life.

Indian monk Swami Vivekananda (12 Jan 1863 – 4 July 1902) who spread the message of truth and love through his lectures.

Purity, patience and perseverance overcomes all obstacles.

Swami Vivekananda

According to Vivekanand, rare people possess the state of perfection. And it can be achieved through extensive love of God, Yoga, and Meditation.

Spiritual relationship is far more previous than physical relationship divorced from spiritual is body without soul.

Mahatma Gandhi

The famous non-violence resistance leader, Mahatma Gandhi (2 Oct 1869 – 30 Jan 1948) was an Indian lawyer. He was such an obedient student to dutiful father of the nation. His seven social sins are famous worldwide.

When each time I sit and think, a thought occurs to me, how much I have borrowed from society, nature, and my parents I doubt if ever I could repay this debt in my life.

Albert Einstein

However, Albert Einstein (14 March 1879 – 18 April 1955) who was the all-time greatest physicist had the same conclusion. He said that we keep borrowing from others but often sometimes forget or unable to return it.

All these great people bow upon the principle thought somehow related to each other similarly. They taught humans from the eras a way to successful, smooth and obstacles free life.